Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because…

I just read that post and all the comments. You seemed very open and accepting of the information and advice before some one else came in and stirred the pot.

@laniejay I'd just like to say that I have friends who are brothers and sisters and they have real issues today and their parents NEVER resulted in spanking or whatever and I recall my friend saying my mom never spanked us in fact she was so nice, yes she did discipline us and we got grounded we had discussions from right and wrong and we had a pretty good life. We grew up and had outside influences and I think if my parents would have just kicked my ass just one time I would have been fine. So there goes that research. And no I dont spank my kids and no i dont judge either. If i dont agree w something I've practice to just keep it pushing. My favorite line i say it all the time is well to each their own. So......just saying

For the users that are saying “I don’t leave a mark so it doesn’t count.” You should like a man that abuses his wife. Do you realize how absurd that statement is?

I’m going to say goodbye at this point though. Clearly this isn’t a productive debate as you’re not open to learning. 🤷🏼‍♀️ have a good one. My apologies for whatever in your life has caused so much pent up hostility.

Discipline*

All publicity is for publicity ☺️

I’m sure your BABY understands she shouldn’t hit by being hit. Makes total sense 👌🏼 child development books and the links I’ve provided would greatly improve your relationships with your child.

@laniejay You actually don't have a fan why don't you mind your own damn business idk where you came from but this app is full of nice mom's helping other people out and if you can't be nice and helpful then don't be on this app. You don't see me trying to parent your kid so please don't parent mine. I smack her hand gently to let her know that it is not ok to punch other people and then laugh about it. It's called disapline and teaching MY daughter right from wrong you may not disapline your kids or maybe you do but I don't judge other mom's because it's rude and it's not my place to say.

I know huh

@kneri83, awe I have a fan... if I’ve resonated enough for you to remember me- doesn’t matter to me if you like me or hate me. Clearly you see I’m passionate about healthy and safe kids 😍 I’m flattered.

@oooshefit her & a few others. This is why I hate this app sometimes, but then I remind myself that a lot of us on here didn't download this app to argue with complete strangers. A lot of us moms really are here to give/get advice & make connections with other moms. ❤️❤️❤️

@kneri83, this is why I called her a troll.

@celiesmommy01 it really is. She's literally up on everyone's posts every day, with something negative. Don't you dare spank, talk about wanting to give birth b4 40 weeks or she will jump in ur posts with her BS. She thinks she's a doctor & an expert on car seats & whatever else. Honestly I don't even think she has kids, or a husband😥 cuz seriously how does she have so much free time? Just ignore her. I didn't see ur post but I'm sure it was nothing bad so don't even worry about it😘😘❤️❤️

@kneri83 Damn that's sad..

@oooshefit don't even bother @laniejay is just waiting for an opportunity to criticize someone. I swear she must be so bored! She literally does this everyday. Check out the baby bump group, you'll see what a lame'o she is. This is what she does all day everyday. Everything she comments is in a negative way.

@laniejay I'd just like to say that I have friends who are brothers and sisters and they have real issues today and their parents NEVER resulted in spanking or whatever and I recall my friend saying my mom never spanked us in fact she was so nice, yes she did discipline us and we got grounded we had discussions from right and wrong and we had a pretty good life. We grew up and had outside influences and I think if my parents would have just kicked my ass just one time I would have been fine. So there goes that research. And no I dont spank my kids and no i dont judge either. If i dont agree w something I've practice to just keep it pushing. My favorite line i say it all the time is well to each their own. So......just saying

@celiesmommy01, don’t be sorry, be better 😝😝😝

@laniejay, you’re right. Could’ve been something from her last post that triggered it 🤷🏻‍♀️

@laniejay Alright because you know everything I am so sorry anything you say😂👍

@oooshefit, you’re the one that brought it there. You escalated her post from the beginning 😂

@celiesmommy01, there are whole teams of doctors behind he research and studies.... do you think they’re just random opinions? I provided facts. If you find that insulting and take it personally, that’s a problem with you not me.

@oooshefit Yeah I'm sorry to but I'm going to leave it to them since they know everything lmao not😂😂😂

@celiesmommy01, you don’t even owe me an explanation. I’m just sorry you were attacked instead of getting good advice from the beginning.

@laniejay Unless you have a whole team of doctors behind you and all of your "research" I don't want to hear shit from you. Guess what bitch every child is different. Bet you didn't know that. I have DONE MY RESEARCH. ESPECIALLY AFTER MORE THAN ONE PERSON TOLD ME TO DO IT. You're just one of those mom's that teach your child how it's ok to treat other mom's like their no one. And guess what lil hunny it ain't working on me. So unless your ass is apologizing I do not want to hear some rude hateful ass shit. I don't beat my child. That IS wrong. BUT disciplining is way different than beating. You just teach them bashing and being disrespectful without consequences is ok. And it isn't. So just stfu and get the fuck on with your supposed great mommy accomplishments. No one needs the constant bashing and everyone else is telling you it isn't right either. My kid, MY WAY OF DISCIPLINING!!! PERIOD, END OF STORY!!!

@oooshefit Even though I pop her hand she is still one of the happiest babies. And she knows what she is doing and she is starting to listen to me.

@__m, this is what constructive feedback looks like @celiesmommy01,

@celiesmommy01, discipline* 😂 my mama always said if one has to resort to name calling in an argument, there is no argument to be had. Who’s mama had it right?

@celiesmommy01, but didn’t you knoooowwww??? You’re wrong and it isn’t right😂😂 this will be a never ending cycle because what others see as fit- some see it is “bad parenting”

Don’t ever let anyone tell you you’re being a bad mom for trying your best.

Everyone does the best they can to the best of their abilities.

PP is doing what she thinks is best for her kids. So that is best for her kids.

You sought advice and all anyone saw was “smacked her hand”

Not the fact you were pretty much crying out for help.

You know what pisses me off most about this subject other than the fact children are being hit and that the people doing it always use excessive 😂😂😂 emojis is the way it gets dressed up. You didn’t pop her hand, you smacked her, you hit her, you raised your hand to her. Popping is a cutesy way of trying to make it sound like less than it is.

@laniejay And you think my baby isn't happy and healthy? Get tf out of here my baby is one of the happiest babies I know😂

@laniejay ***Disaplining

@laniejay I know my research bitch I was being nice and saying that we should all just get along and help other mom's out but no you have to be a know it all bitch and you just pissed me tf off so do me a favor and get off my post.

@celiesmommy01, clearly not if you think hitting a BABY is fine

@celiesmommy01, actually, you are correct. Because I do my job as a parent to research and follow the best decisions to raise a healthy, successfully functioning and loved child.

I don’t leave marks so what’s the problem!! Said millions of abusing husbands/wives/partners! @celiesmommy01, genuine question, do you pop your partner when he does something wrong and vice versa?

My mom popped my hand when I was her age and I turned out just fine😂

@laniejay Oh because you know best right? Oh I am so sorry😂😂😂

@oooshefit Omg I'm such a bad mom because I'm teaching my kid right from wrong🤦😂

@oooshefit, kudos for that edit. 👍🏼

@celiesmommy01, the problem is, you’re not a perfect mom like her. 😂 isn’t it obvious? You’re going to turn your child into a murderous demon for popping her hand💀

@celiesmommy01, gtfo with facts and research ummm ok 👌🏼

@oooshefit, it is just that. Try reading some things on the Internet

@laniejay, because supporting my sons neck is soooooo unsafe @they-see-me-trollin, okay. 😂

@laniejay My kid my rules so gtfo of here with that crap I don't leave marks on her so what's the problem? At least my kid won't grow up stuck up.

@they-see-me-trollin, her child - her rules DOES NOT EQUAL not my child, not my problem.

She makes the rules for her child. And it’s up to me to be as supportive as possible. Like PP could’ve been supportive without making OP feel like a complete failure at being a mom because she “popped” her kids hand.

@laniejay, 🙈🙈🙈

@they-see-me-trollin, actually @oooshefit is very supportive of unsafe car seats. She’s captaining another post doing just that

@celiesmommy01, I did learn my facts. Did you read any of the links I provided to learn yours? Because you’re very mistaken.

@oooshefit, you’re right it went totally over my head. 😒 You’re right no one parents the same but that doesn’t mean that it’s ok to hit your child. Public posts on a public forum will receive comments. Should we all just sit and be accepting of people parenting in ways that aren’t productive and have been proven to be destructive for fear of offending someone? I’m sure you wouldn’t be if you saw a baby not in a car seat, or a child playing unattended with something that’s dangerous? Not everything is an attack, and the not my child not my problem isn’t helpful.

@celiesmommy01, girl didn’t you know??? You obviously beat your children to the point they’re going to have mental issues...what a shame

@they-see-me-trollin Exactly!!!!

@laniejay Lmao I'm dead it doesn't lead to aggression as an adult girl learn your facts😂😂😂🤦

I just read that post and all the comments. You seemed very open and accepting of the information and advice before some one else came in and stirred the pot.

@they-see-me-trollin, I was trying to be a sarcastic bitch but it went over your head. Sorry. I’ve read plenty of studies that have taken years and years to do so I get where PP is coming from but when a mom is tired , and has exhausted all of her options on how to deal with her daughter , the last thing ANYONE needs to be crucified for trying to be a parent. No parents , parent the same🤷🏻‍♀️ people need to get over that

@oooshefit, not sure where I said that. However, just because something is on the internet does not mean it isn’t true. I believe these people also have places of work, like real buildings and offices where they conduct these studies and research these issues and then upload them to the internet. Amazing really.

@laniejay, exactly!! Now you’re getting it. 👏🏻

This turned ugly really quick 😐

Hugs OP, some people really are miserable. You’re doing a great job❤️

@they-see-me-trollin, because everything we ready in the Internet is true 😂😂 I forgot, my bad.

@they-see-me-trollin, well my mama’s uncle’s brother cousins did it for years so that trumps all the edumacation

@laniejay, I know. You’d think people went to school for a long time and spent endless hours/days/years writing those studies or something.

In the event OP is actually open to learning:

http://www.human.cornell.edu/pam/outreach/parenting/parents/upload/Spanking-Research-Brief.pdf

https://news.utexas.edu/2016/04/25/risks-of-harm-from-spanking-confirmed-by-researchers

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/27312115/

http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/101/4/723

http://www.apa.org/monitor/2012/04/spanking.aspx

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201309/research-spanking-it-s-bad-all-kids

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/04/160425143106.htm

http://www.cnn.com/2014/07/23/health/effects-spanking-brain/

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3768154/

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15121948

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24144718

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/27055181

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3493790/

@laniejay, you give shitty examples

@they-see-me-trollin, damn. All those researchers and studies- waste of time I guess

@oooshefit, well it is a perfect example to OP why spanking can be detrimental 🤷🏼‍♀️ who wants to be so full of aggression as an adult?

@they-see-me-trollin, no she doesnt , duhhhhh. 😂

@laniejay, let’s not make this about me now, I’m not that special 😒 tf out of here

@laniejay, how dare you judge someone for raising their hands to a child, it’s only a pop not a real hit. Ya know the rules, if it doesn’t leave marks it’s perfectly fine, there’s no evidence in the world that proves anything to the contrary. 🙄

@oooshefit, were you spanked too much as a child? That must be it. Spanking does lead to aggression as an adult.

@laniejay, are you done crying?

I never said I didn’t judge, because I’m judging you for being a judgemental bitch🤷🏻‍♀️ whatever 😂

Your profile also fits the kind of person you are. A jack ass.

@oooshefit, first off- learn the definition of a troll. Second- I asked a damn question and captain you went from 0-500. Take a chill pill. Third- I will judge whoever the f I want because I’m human and that’s human nature so if you say you don’t judge you’re lying. And 4th - hitting a BABY is wrong. Do you want some links with science backing up how wrong it is?

@celiesmommy01 dont explain your actions to anyone your the mom only your opinion matters when it comes to your child. Not every one is going to agree with how you choose to discipline your child its a very touchy subject to have an open conversation about.

@celiesmommy01, you don’t owe her an explanation, ppl like her won’t ever hear you out. 🤷🏻‍♀️ sorry

Lmfao I just read the post damn 😂 there will always be mom's who bash other moms. I wouldn't worry about it.

As for celie, just be patient. SHOW her what you want her to do or how to act. This age is hard because they want to communicate but don't know how then get frustrated . Now is a good time to play with sign language if you haven't started. If it gets too much for both of you, leave the room, take a breath and try again.

@laniejay, unless you have some real advice. Go troll another post.

Cool, you don’t use corporal punishment on your kids....

You must be a perfect fuckin mother who does everything by the book and your such a fucking saint 😂😂😂

You don’t have to agree with the way she parents her child....but you also don’t have to belittle someone and try and make someone feel guilty about the way they parent. Their kid, their choice...

I don’t hit my kids but...I do give time outs...such a bad mom, I know 😂😂😂😂🖕🏼

Also, WHO THE FUCK AM I TO JUDGE? No one . That’s who. Just like you. No one.

Hitting and disaplining is two different things.

Don’t worry about it girl, just block them if they’re harassing you. Some ladies are just very closed minded about different parenting styles

@oooshefit Exactly I've had this app since I was pregnant with my daughter and I don't ever remembering these mom's being so rude. I'm not saying every mom is like that on this app because there is still people on this app that is very helpful.

@laniejay I wasn't hitting her I gentely popped her hand to disapline her.

@celiesmommy01, majority of those mean moms never used to be apart of this community until their app shut down. This is where some moms really need to learn how to not let people -WHO HAVE NO INFLUENCE ON THEIR LIFE - let their words affect how you feel.

Opinions are like assholes mama, everyone has one. It’s up to you how you choose to filter those “mean moms”

Some of them are down right cunt bagels but they are who they are. But you are who YOU are and you don’t have to put up with it. Just know at the end of your day....

You did everything in your power to be a good mom, girlfriend, daughter, sister...etc. some women just don’t have the mental capacity to be a team player 🤷🏻‍♀️

Some moms are mean girls 😕

@celiesmommy01, were you the one hitting your baby?

@oooshefit I made a post last night about some advice and I totally got bashed about it some of these mom's on here are mean asf.

I mean it all depends on your definition of bashing because it really does differ from woman to woman on here lol