Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
You know what's upsetting? I was trying something different (sexually) and it was the most fun I had with my hubby in the 3yrs of marriage...last night I wanted to do it again and he said we would...he said no...I was so upset! I cried, slept on my daughter's bedroom floor for a bit then went back to bed and cried myself to sleep....got my hopes up for nothing! 😔😭
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
I need help guys my doctor said to give the baby rice for his last meal for the night bc he's not sleeping threw the night. She gave me some instruction but I'm still confused on how much milk he shoukd get for his last bottle
Autumn Heie·
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You're welcome!
Stevie·
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@autumn, Thank you, that's really reassuring!
Autumn Heie·
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I was 2 centimeters dilated at 31 weeks, and now I'm 38 weeks and only 3 cm dilated. So you should be fine. If you start having contractions or anything else like that, then you would probably want to call or go in.
Stevie·
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@jalensmommy16,
Stevie·
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He said it felt wayyy different than yesterday, and when I put my fingers in to check there was an opening that had never been there before. I know that to really tell you need to be experienced, I'm just going by what I read on how to tell at home as someone with no medical training. When my husband and I first started trying for a baby, my doctor talked us through how to check your cervix to tell if you're ovulating, so I know what mine USUALLY feels like and I know there's an opening where there wasn't one before, and I can fit one finger inside it. But just last night the preterm test was negative so I don't want to panic and go in if i shouldn't worry, I just don't know if I should be worried or not
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That's not so true cause when your 5cm at the hospital they don't put all 5 fingers inside you you have to be experienced and know what your doing to tell how many cm or if your even dilated and I'm 1 cm dilated and my boyfriend said it still feels the same @eev
Stevie·
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@perhsice,
Stevie·
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I googled how to check your cervix at home, everything I read said to just put your fingers back until you can feel your cervix, and then feel for an opening that felt like puckered lips, and to count the cm you just go by how many fingers fit in the opening.
missing367user·
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howd you check yourself?