Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was…

Hahaha i feel this! He's handsome to me but probably not to everyone else lol i just can't believe he said no one should weigh _______ amount of weight when that's only about 5lbs more than i am right now... This is my hubby..

But i loved him after we met and he was goofy looking then lol

I'm so sorry! That's terrible! But i understand how you feel. I'll never be how i was when we met.. I was 18 and just outta high school and danced in high school so i was tiny... This was how skinny i was when we first met.

@red_carr those legs !!!!!!!!! I look at this and more so I see that beauty of a smile !!!!!! Keep smiling women !

@nouseforaname lol thank you!

@nouseforaname Well thank you very much. I really appreciate that🖤 I guess what bothered me was after i said i was almost ___ amount of weight he still said well no one should weigh that and that i should be healthier or take better care of myself..

@red_carr you know men when they put they foot in their mouth . Stubborn and hard to go back . Prolly all it was . Ugggggh men ...

@nouseforaname that's true. He's very stubborn..

@al093

@red_carr, seeee you carry your weight similar to me your legs are long and thinner and majority of the weight is just in the belly area which can easily be hidden with flowy tops which confirms my theory...he said that number without expecting it to be anywhere near your actual weight. Put his foot right in his mouth!

@al093 lol he's good at that... I get what you're saying.. Im 6'1 so i do carry my weight well. I'm smaller than i was when i had hazel but I'm still too big.. I know i need to lose weight. But him saying what he said about it really hurt. I swear every time i actually feel decently good about myself he fucks it up by saying something...

He's not healthy though! He's Skinner but more unhealthy than i am. He doesn't want to be healthier as a couple.. He's never done any of my diets with me.. He eats what ever he wants in front of me. ..

@red_carr, yeah then you were definitely not wrong and he can kiss your butt lol

@madrex2 Lol thank you! Im just really hurt about the entire thing..

Like i said above. He's more unhealthy than i am. So idk why he's coming at me about my weight when he is skinnier but more unhealthy

@red_carr, did you also bring this up to him?

@mybabybear no i was so mad that he said what he said i just argued about him having an issue with my weight that he denied..

@bunsinmyoven yea my mom would babysit but my hubby never stops working...

@red_carr, good!

Well you guys need to make time together a priority so I’d figure it out. He obviously LOVES you and cares about you. Try not to stew over what happened and be angry at him.. id really try to get to the bottom of what he means and if he meant you etc etc

@bunsinmyoven he just shuts down if i get upset or angry at something he says.. He just doesn't want to talk and any time i ask him to tell me what he means by something he says idk how to explain it.. But i will try to talk to him more about it.

@anicole3285 it was.. I talked to him more and he explained that he wasn't trying to be hurtful but he came across very wrong for what he was trying to say which was that he was concerned for my health.. But being concerned about my health is one thing and bringing up my weight is another. He could have expressed his worries without even mentioning my weight..

@red_carr very true. Its good he apologized

@anicole3285 yea it helped some.

A number close to my weight

@red_carr, how did it even come up??

@bunsinmyoven i honestly don't remeber.