Hayley Marie Libby
paisleysmama0216
Hayley Marie Libby·Мама троих детей

Ugh! I'm honestly considering leaving my daughters father. I can't take the selfishness any longer. He constantly goes out to eat/spends money that we DONT have. He gets pissy because I don't want to have sex however it hurts just about every time we do along with having back & pelvic pain. He never helps with Paisley or the house and usually bitches saying he's "so give out" if I ask him to do anything. He thinks because I'm a stay at home mom that I contribute nothing. He calls out of work because of sore throats or other bs even though we cannot afford for him to do that yet when I say something he says well you go get a job, put her in daycare and pay your own damn car payment and insurance. We BOTH agreed that daycare wasn't an option for us & he drives MY car because he sold his and never got another one leaving me stranded at home. I wanna leave so bad & my parents told me if I could make it last until tax time they'll pay my car off, let me move with them, & help me until I can get a job and baby sitter if needed. I honestly think that's what's going to happen however I'm super stressed because I don't want her to be alone with him considering she NEEDS someone to care for her and he doesn't. I'm also afraid he'll leave her with his crazy mother. I don't want him bringing strangers in and out of her life and leaving her alone with them so that he doesn't have to care for them.

15.12.2015
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paisleysmama0216
Hayley Marie Libby·Мама троих детей

@princessz, thanks for the support girl ☺️ I know it's going to take a lot of changes but I can't keep living this way- it's a bad example for my baby girl @firefly there's definitely going to be some changes I'm hoping to find a job situation that can allow me to avoid daycare however if she HAS to go to daycare at least by that point she'll be 1 thanks for the support ☺️ I'm not too concerned about stashing cash since I have my parents to help me but I am definitely going to stay until we get taxes back since he's claiming me and my daughter part of that $ is going to pay my car off and get her a new car seat Idc what else he does with it but I want those 2 things done

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firefly
Lyndsey·Мама дочки (10 лет)

I think you need to do what is right for you and your daughter, I'm sure you know what that is. Go with your gut, and if that means daycare you gotta do what you gotta do. Stay strong and start stashing some cash away.

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princessz

Being a mom is a 24 hour per day job, one that he is not capable of handling. Do not allow him to break you or make you feel less than the wonderful person you are. Take control of your life for ur baby's sake. U can do it.

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yanasmommy590
Javonda Dillard·Мама дочки (9 лет)

I know exactly how yu feel

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paisleysmama0216
Hayley Marie Libby·Мама троих детей

@yanasmommy590, 😔 sorry to hear that! I'm so over it it's not even funny!

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yanasmommy590
Javonda Dillard·Мама дочки (9 лет)

we both going thru the same thing

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