Car Wreck!!
What a day! I took my husband's car to work which I never do. He drove my car last night so I couldn't find my keys. Then I get to work and we end up leaving late because I had to finish an audit. As I'm driving my husband's car home a guy fails to yield and turns right in front of me with no warning and I had no way to stop. I slammed into the side of him and in my fury I jumped out of the car freaking out and screaming at him and even made the poor kid cry. He didn't have a license but luckily he had insurance.
We just got word today that the car is totaled so it looks like we'll be car shopping soon. Anyone have any recommendations?
My appointment went well. Baby Grayson's hb is well and he's dropped a lot. I'm measuring 34 weeks when I've always measured on time. She said it's normal when you drop. I didn't have her check my cervix since they already did last night. I forgot to ask if it's safe to go back to work, I might call tomorrow to find out. I'm pretty sure I'd need a letter from my doctor in order to have their insurance cover missed wages.
I wish I could. Today I'm off but I'm supposed to go in tomorrow unless my doctor tells me not to. I only have 10 days of work left and I won't be disappointed if she tells me to stay home. I feel like I'll need these last few days to recuperate before giving birth.
Soft is good at least! Maybe she'll surprise you and come on time or early! I hope both of our little ones do, waiting is hard.
When is your appointment? Are you dialated or anything yet? Last night my cervix was still really high and I'm still closed, but the lady that did my ultrasound said that was weird because his head is so low that she couldn't even see it without doing a tv ultrasound.
It's at 3:15 CST. I'm just sitting here getting frustrated that this my hurt my chances of having the hypno birth I really want. If I go into labor and I'm so stiff and sore already how am I going to be able to walk around and move to different positions. Ugh, stupid wreck. I hope I start to feel better before he decides to come even though I'm so ready to meet him. I've been lucky this whole pregnancy with pain so I guess I can't complain too much.
Thanks Bluemama, I'll keep you all updated. My appointment isn't until later today. Im glad Grayson is safe too, but he's welcome to be born whenever. :) I'm 38w 2d right now. I'm just glad he wasn't in a car seat in the back otherwise I probably would have attacked the guy that caused the wreck.
Most insurance does cover chiropractor or PT post car accidents. You need to call your insurance agent to find out about how to go about it. Also my advice would be to not settle right away, and possibly look into a lawyer. We thought everything was ok then my husband started to have back problems and 6,000$ later he was better. But since we settled quickly before we knew about the problem we had to cover it.
Luckily the car seat wasn't installed yet. Great advice though because I probably wouldn't have thought about that. I feel like I need a really good massage or a chiropractor or something. My back is killing me. I wonder if insurance would cover that?
I'm trying to not take anything but I may have to. I've been sleeping off and on and I'm incredibly sore. I can't really bend much right now so I think it would be to difficult to take a bath. I'm actually going to bed now so we'll see how I feel in the morning.
Now my whole body is starting to ache and it's painful to even try to walk. I can imagine what tomorrow will feel like. My head also feels kind of fuzzy, like I can't collect my thoughts, but it might just be the stress and that it's late. I'll let my doctor know everything tomorrow.
I'm 38w 1d so it's safe for Grayson to come any day now. My dh isn't upset, we need new cars anyway. His car is a wreck magnet though. It's been in 5 wrecks that weren't his fault, or mine. I hope it's totaled because I hate it. I'm feeling pretty crappy right now and I was planning to spend part of tomorrow shopping for last minute baby items but I doubt that will happen. I'll be lucky to drive myself to my doctor's appointment, dh may have to take me. :(
And even though they checked to see if my water was leaking and said it wasn't I kind of think it is. Every time I move I feel some come out, but it's not a lot. They did say I'm having discharge right now but this feels different to me. I'll ask my doctor's office about it tomorrow.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Creeped out!
A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped ou...

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Since my husband's a SAHD am I going to have to pay him if I kick him out of our house? It's our house because it's in both of our names, but all of the bills are paid by me and in my name. He's telling me I can't kick him out because he has no car or money to start off on his own. And he's also saying he will take the title to my car if I kick him out because he sold his car to buy me mine. Which I don't believe anyone cares about because this car is in my name, I don't think anyone cares who g...
Thanks, we'll have to test drive one tomorrow.