Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
So my ex went to court and filed for visitation rights. I was served last week. I am not comfortable with our daughter being around him alone nor his mother which he lives with. I have proof of him asking me to take his drug test for his job for him in text messages and him texting me he was too high to drive and get our daughter milk. Is that enough to show the judge? As far as his mother she watches his son quite often and told us she gives him nighttime medicine if she has problems getting him to go to sleep at night. (Claims she did it with my ex when he was little too) And she FaceTimed us once mid day while taking his son back to his mother, she gave him night time medicine bc she didn’t want him talking the whole ride and wanted him to sleep. He was so out of it. It just scares me to leave her alone with them.
queenmother·
I wouldn't even let my husband take our newborn out of state without me! I don't think your being unreasonable at all. The fact that you are willing to go with just so his family can meet the little one sounds reasonable to me. Especially if your breastfeeding.
Amanda·
thank you ladies. I tried breastfeeding with my other kids. first one didnt work out, the second one was eating but he stayed under his birth weight for 2 months so had to switch him. my older kids are from my ex husband and this baby is a different father. this whole thing having a baby daddy and not being with him is new to me. i dont know if I am being too pushy or if I shouldn't even try to involve him or what I should do. my other kids dad is an amazing dad and couldn't have found a better father. so this one is so confusing.
Amanda·
В ожидании первенца
^agreed
Victoria·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Nope. Your doing everything correct. I know in IL the mother doesn't have to give the child to the dad without supervision till 18 months, not sure about other states. But still if your breastfeeding I wouldn't change anything. He and his family will just have to wait if he's not willing to have you go along. My opinion!
Martee 💋💋·
Мама двоих (4 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
I pretty sure that he can't take him to another state unless he get permission from you look up the rights for your state