ok mommies..... feeling really frustrated with my unborn sons father. him and I were never in a relationship and I do plan on breastfeeding our son. he doesnt want me to breastfeed and wants to take him put of state without me to meet his family before September. I told him I would go but he cant go alone. especially since im going to be breastfeeding. Frustrated bc I am pretty sure his family wants to meet their grandson/nephew but he wont do it bc I wont let him go alone.. this is his first child. had told me in the very beginning abortion then said adoption and I refused both of them. and says I am forcing him to be a dad bc I am holding him financially responsible for our son. am I wrong for being willing to go to a completely different state so our son can meet his fathers side of the family? or is he something else bc he wont do it?
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thank you ladies. I tried breastfeeding with my other kids. first one didnt work out, the second one was eating but he stayed under his birth weight for 2 months so had to switch him. my older kids are from my ex husband and this baby is a different father. this whole thing having a baby daddy and not being with him is new to me. i dont know if I am being too pushy or if I shouldn't even try to involve him or what I should do. my other kids dad is an amazing dad and couldn't have found a better father. so this one is so confusing.
Nope. Your doing everything correct. I know in IL the mother doesn't have to give the child to the dad without supervision till 18 months, not sure about other states. But still if your breastfeeding I wouldn't change anything. He and his family will just have to wait if he's not willing to have you go along. My opinion!
I pretty sure that he can't take him to another state unless he get permission from you look up the rights for your state
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I wouldn't even let my husband take our newborn out of state without me! I don't think your being unreasonable at all. The fact that you are willing to go with just so his family can meet the little one sounds reasonable to me. Especially if your breastfeeding.