My ex was meant to pay me CS on Tuesday (even though he gets paid the previous Friday, first Friday of every month) as its when he has our daughter he's too lazy to make a special trip to provide for his child. His sons mum gets it on the Friday as that's when he has him. I told him to post it through my letter box on Thursday and he said he wouldn't be free until Sunday night. Fast forward to today when I wake up and am reminded that it's his birthday and see photos of him out drinking last nig...

Can you get in trouble for playing really loud music when you don't have your baby (in the legal noise time limit of course) My girl is at her dads tomorrow night and I'm moving into my dream house next week so wanting to annoy the neighbour's as much as possible as they've been nothing but vile to me. Thinking about having a friend over for a celebratory drink and blast some music. I've done it before whilst getting ready occasionally (baby not there) and the next morning one of them has hoover...

Lovely social visit again yesterday, this time was because my neighbour's overheard me saying (yes, not shouting soundproofing is very bad) the words 'shut up' a few times (previous report was for having takeaways, my ex not coming in my house and my bin overflowing because I struggle to get it up the steps to the pavement) This was directed at my annoying as hell cat that still meows for england even after I've fed her, not my baby. Social worker witnessed this for herself. Moving out next week...

Could it be said that my 8 month old DD is slightly under what weight most babies her age are because she is very active and probably more active than most babies that age. She's only ever really still when sleeping and she'll pretty much be walking in the next month as she's been trying to stand unaided as her next thing. She still has up to 8 7oz bottles a day and up to 3 in the night it varies. She's not too fond of her purées but loves solids as she's got 5 teeth already so pretty much skipp...

Does anyone know how to go about registering a complaint against a health visitor/family nurse? My first one from the start of pregnancy was brilliant but she left just after I had my daughter and now my new one always rearranges appointments that have been set up weeks in advance and I've made sure my day has been clear then when she's actually available to see me I'm busy. The last time she rearranged my daughter was at her dads which I can't help especially when the meeting is sprung on me li...

Hey ladies just a quick post seeking advice. This is a photo posted on Facebook of my daughter at my ex's mums house when she was 4 months old. As you can clearly see there is an opened beer can on the table. This photo was posted at 3 in the afternoon on a Tuesday so presumably taken at a similar time. Is this good evidence for court against my ex, mostly him being an irresponsible alcoholic as the photo shows. He had his 3 year old son at the same time and he could have ended up drinking that ...

Does anyone know who I contact regarding building and renovations noise? The idiots in the flat above me have been having work done every day 8am-6pm for two months, even on Sunday's and bank holidays! I can't even sit and relax in my own home let alone get my poor teething baby down for her naps. They know I have a small baby yet still didn't say a word of warning before this work begun. They have also got 3 giant skips on our front garden which have been there since the work started where I so...

So the guy that came with the police to take a bloody gas reading also reported me to the council and to social services because my living room is being renovated (there's nothing in there atm just had to tip 2 expensive sofas and rip up carpet that had been down for only a year that I also paid for because the cats ruined them and I can afford to replace it) and because I don't have a kettle (it's recently broke) or a washing machine(my mum does my washing this takes some stress off of me so I ...

Hate the council so much! They need to do my gas reading and every time they've been I've been too busy or unable to give them access due to having work done in the room the meter is in. Bearing in mind I'm a single mum to a 6 month old and then my cat had 5 kittens a 3 months ago. Long story short they trashed my living room carpet and sofas so had to rip it up and throw the sofas away. All that's sorted and they can now gain access. I cried hysterically at the guy last time because I hadn't em...

Finally found out why my daughters been coming back starving hungry every time from her dads, because they're still using size 1 teats. Poor little baby. How cheap can you get, she's on size 3 now. I shouldn't have to tell them to do things like that🙄