Have I done the right thing to stop overnight contact all together until my ex has his own home with a room for our daughter with everything she needs (cot, clothes etc)/when she's old enough to decide for herself? He will still have her from 12-7 one day a week. At the moment she is still sleeping in a Moses basket there at 6 months old and it is dangerous and I shouldn't have to spend more of my money on another cot just so I know she's safe. I have to send clothes and all her equipment with her. He never bathes her when I tell him to, doesn't brush her teeth, just basic care really. He lives with his parents and his brother in a 3 bed. He's got a bed in his room for his 3 year old son and then obviously our daughter sleeps in there too when she's there so that's 1 adult and 2 children in 1 room. There are also extreme communication and respect issues. He rarely replies to my messages when he has custody of her, he's been late dropping her off/picking her up, late with CS payments, underpaying, he didn't tell me that he was introducing his new girlfriend I found out by her posting pictures of her self with my baby on Fb without my permission. I could go on. Now I'm sat back waiting for the shitstorm from him and his mother accusing me of keeping them from his daughter and that I'm a terrible mum etc. 🐸☕️
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@mamapop, that's ridiculous! I'd demand he buy a cot and everything she needs or face the fact she won't be there overnight, I'm surprised his parents haven't offered to do that surely they know it's not right for her to still be in a Moses basket when she's 6 months old? That's fair enough about his girlfriend then if he would expect you to let him know about a new partner he should be doing the same out of respect if nothing else. I wouldn't even give him the time of day until he steps up and proves he gives a shit X
@abbylouise, he gives the same amount to his ex who still lives with her parents and doesn't pay bills! I'm about to move into a two bed house and I think he forgets the differences between the two of us sometimes xx
Thank you! @abbylouise He gives me £60 a month and thinks that means I provide every single thing for her including for her stay at his. The photo's only an issue because I didn't even know she was around my daughter in the first place she could be anyone. He used to slag his sons ex off to me about having her partners around him without telling him and now he's done the same to me. I told him about my partner straight away so he didn't have anything to kick off about haha. He's still not responded, she's really sick and not herself and that isn't even enough for him to be interested x
Sounds like you've done the right thing! You shouldn't need to worry about your child's safety when they're with the other parent. Why isn't he buying her what she needs to stay there? Seems strange that he isn't. As for his girlfriend posting pictures without your permission, maybe she okay'd it with him first? After all he is also her parent and has that right I guess. If his family can't understand why you have stopped overnight stays simply ignore them, it's not their business anyway xx
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@mamapop sounds like fun good luck haha, 60 pound a month is a joke x