Not been on here in a while had a lot of stuff going on but I wanted to update with the fact that my neighbours (a middle aged couple who live above me, no kids and I've received abuse from them before) reported me to SS. I have never known anything more ridiculous in my life. These are the points that they reported and I will explain the reasoning behind them:
-I have, and I quote here, '3 takeaways delivered a day' (I have up to 2 a week some weeks because I can afford it and I am either too tired or too busy after caring for my daughter single handedly 24/7. It is usually only something small like a burger and chips. I said they can come cook for me if they're that concerned. This point infuriates me the most because I also have a tesco shop delivered once a week but they miss that apparently🙄
-My DDs dad and her GPs don't enter my property when coming to collect her/drop her off after contact (Now this one is a strange one too, not sure how that means I'm neglecting my daughter. They do not know the dynamics between me and the relatives and I don't have to have anyone in my home if I don't want to. They are coming to collect/drop off their DD/GD not have some tea and a chat)
-My black bin overflows by 1 or 2 bags sometimes (This is because there is a large set of steps to get up to the pavement in front of my flat and I struggle to get a full bin up there as my back is still kinda strained from giving birth and tbh I'm not that strong😂 If there is no one available to put it out for me then it doesn't go out so I get behind on rubbish a bit every now and then. I also have bad social anxiety so asking neighbours to take it out for me is a no no but it must be obvious to them but instead of offering to help me they report me to SS...)
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Sounds like annoying neighbours reporting issues they don't like rather than anything that actually involves the care of your child... @mamapop Least they realise it's silly false reports but I imagine scary hearing from them!
I was so scared when I got the letter saying there had been a report but luckily it was a lovely woman who helped me laugh at what they actually reported which means nothing in relation to my child. I feel bad for her having to waste her time, she didn't even ask to see my living room/kitchen so she clearly thought it was bogus😂 @khawlaa
wtf these people are clearly low lives who needed a bit of entertainment out of causing u trouble
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@sara-lou Non of the points imply I'm neglecting my child it's just how I live my life, apart from the bin which they could help me with if they were really that concerned. I don't want my ex partner or his parents in my home due to an emotionally abusive past with them. Thr fact that they've been watching me long enough to know that they don't come inside every time is creepy. The takeaway bit is also the weirdest thing ever the SW actually laughed whilst reading it out to me. If anything it shows that I can afford to order food and therefore my child is clearly gonna be well provided for and has more attention from me because I'm not in the kitchen cooking. She's 6 months old it's not like she's eating any of it😂 I'm still really pissed off because I'm a single mum with barely any support around me and they know that. I told the SW that they can come round and cook for me every night so I don't have to order food😂