Как справиться с проблемами с отцом ребёнка

нужен совет. познакомились с будующим папой ребёнка 4 года назад, у общих знакомых. на тот момент я знала, о нём только то, что был женат, давно разведён и имеет двух детей от двух разных женщин, сын от первого брака 7 лет и девочка 3 года, когда начали общаться выяснилось, что сына любит, помогает и видится с ним, а девочка появилась в итоге его отношений с 18летней девушкой, они встречались 2,5 месяца, потом разбежались, а она сказала что берем, он предложил расписаться, она отказалась и сказала, что родит для себя, от него ничего не надо. девочка записана на маму, он с ней не общается. когда мы начали жить вместе выяснилось, что его родители с ней общаются, обожают её, постоянно говорили про неё и её мать, для свекрови она герой, что родила в 18 и училась в универе, они её берут на прогулки с его сыном, дети друг друга любят, а девочка знает, что муж это её папа. на мои вопросы почему он с ней не общается, он сказал, что она ему никто, не испытывает чувств и тд. а теперь когда родил

Baby daddy told me today that when we go to court he's telling the judge that I said I wont allow our son & daughter to be around his girlfriend by them self. I dont know this chic from a can of paint I dont know if she would try to mistreat my babies if I dont trust baby daddy alone with them why should I trust some chicken head that I dont know ???

My son is set to arrive in two weeks from tomorrow & his dad just threatened to take me to court all because I said his girlfriend wasn't allowed to come to the hospital. What should I do/say?

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I need advice ! My ex boyfriend which is father of my unborn baby wants to fight for custody , but he suggested abortion just like his mom did, he smokes, he drinks , he recently got pulled over and got his car taken away, he lost his job and took him months to get another one, but says the child won't be any better with me cause I still haven't finished high school , any advice? I don't want him to be on the birth certificate ):

My SO keep asking when are we going to have another baby. Since yesterday and today he's asked around 6 times and sometime in the past...I think this man is crazy or something lol. baby I'm still pregnant here , what's the rush??? He said we wont stop until we get a boy because he's the only boy in his family so his son needs to carry on his name. Lord have mercy on my body. I'm so scared he might knock me up again too soon since he knew I was pregnant before i even did. I didn't even notice any changes he kept telling me for weeks babe you're pregnant and I just brushed him off like pssh boy what do you know. Now here I am🐋❤ lol

So I need your guys help. The dad to this baby didn't want to be here for 6months of the pregnancy and wants to be here now because he is changing and going to counseling. I told him he needs to prove himself that he wants to be here and be apart of our babies life. He's couldn't come to the appointment yesterday because he had training I told him that she is healthy and so am I. But what's getting me is that he never asked about my next appointment :( I don't know if he forgot I asked him. Maybe I am not emotional and scared still about letting him in. I just want him to try and be here as much as he can for her. I want her to know his voice before she comes out. Blah... I told him all of this.

should men have the option to help you choose what to do if you are pregnant unexpectedly or if he don't want a kid but you do...should the father have any say in the matter....(I'm not talking to about married couples) I wonder because if he was to say he wanted you to put it up for adoption and u didn't split with him and kept the baby could he opt out of child support... because not all women care what the man wants tho he is part of it...

My man doesn't even listen to me when I mention the fact our baby has a 50% of being a boy 😂 he wants a baby girl so bad! Anyone else with this little problem?! hahah

So my boyfriend tells me his baby mom went ahead and told him to keep my baby away from his son once my baby is born. Um not happening they're brothers wether she likes it or not she has another child with someone else & no one is telling her shit. Just cus he's having another child don't mean my child will be left out then she wanna go ahead & think her child will be put 2nd just cus of my baby no they will be treated equally at the end of the day. Girl needa stop being so damn childish about everything and woman up tryna talk bad about my unborn child already like b**** I will give birth eventually I will heal & I'll be able to confront you don't fuck with my baby just cus u hate on my relationship

Подскажите информацию👆👆 Если мы не расписаны, то после рождения ребенка я смогу дать фамилию мужа и чтоб в свидетельстве о рождении ребенка было написано, что отец такой-то и т.д.... Надо ли мужу писать заявление, что он является отцом?!? Потому что слышала вроде как нечего не надо писать просто вписываешь отца,даешь фамилию ребенку и все. Кто знает что-то об этом??

Hey mommies! I need some advice. My fiancé father is totally against my pregnancy. At first he called my baby a burden, then he called him that, now he's saying my baby is a situation. I want to say something because it's eating me up inside. My fiancé just allows his father to say these things but gets in his feelings when I express myself. What should I do?

So me and my baby girls daddy aren't together anymore cuz we just fight to much. Last night he told me he doesn't want to be named on her birth certicate and that he doesn't really want to be around when she's born. How many mommies here are doing it alone?

My boyfriend is actually not my daughter biological father. I found out about my daughter when I was 37 weeks along. My boyfriend and I had only been together for 5 months and he settled up when her bio dad wouldn't. He is the greatest father I've ever seen and I'm glad he is her dada! I wouldn't be able to go through my roller coaster of a life without him! I'm so blessed to have a man like him! 💖👨‍👩‍👧🙌🏻 #myso #dada #babydaddy

Как папе оформить больничный, если мама в декрете?

Необычный вопрос. Если мама в декрете, один ребёнок заболел так, что пришлось лечь в больницу... А папа дома со вторым ребёнком. Что необходимо, чтобы папе оформили больничный? Ситуация только предположительная... Или чтобы получить больничный должен папа в больницу ложиться, а мама дома со здоровым? Ну и другая ситуация... Мама едет рожать второго ребёнка... Папа дома со старшим сидит... В этой ситуации есть варианты получить больничный лист папе?

So I have a question for the moms that receive child support. My sister was married to her ex husband for 7years and 3 kids later, well they been separated for over a year now and her divorce was finalized a few months ago. He has a new gf now who is about to give birth to his baby come March. He took my sister to court for child support cause she didn't want it from him but he insisted he'd pay. Well she just started getting it a little over 2months ago. She gets it every other Tuesday but last week he told her she wasn't getting the full amount cause he had missed work for a week and his check was low. I thought once it all goes thru court and he's supposed to pay a certain amount it stays like that that he can't choose to pay what ever he wants when his check is low. And she was supposed to get it this Tuesday and nothing she called the place and said it wasn't taken out. She tried calling him at work and his cell and no answer. Basically he just wants to pay when he wants to. Since

My child's father has no baby pictures, this is the best one. Thanks for doing such a crap job at raising him and capturing moments in-laws😅🙄 I'm fixing him day by day. It's not easy but I love him.

I don't know what should I do my baby daddy has cheat on me ever since I got pregnant but I'm still with him i don't know if I should stay with him still even though I get super stressed over the things he does to me I need help

I know I'm kind if blowing up preggie right now but I can't sleep and I'm 8 1/2 months pregnant so I got questions! Ok so if you and your SO break up, do you all still decide on a name for baby? Or just me. I feel like I have final say in what it will be but I feel like he still has an input. it is his child too and I want us to remain on good terms for my sons sake.

Nothing ruffles my feathers more than my father. Was going to the after hours clinic or the health department to confirm my pregnancy and he says I'm not going all because he don't want me to have a kid. What should I do? Because if I am pregnant then I'm going to make sure I'm doing everything the best I can for my kid regardless of a parent or guardian over me. He did buy me a test from the dollar store. It came back negative but the more expensive ones from Walmart come back positive.

Who else's bf says that if the baby isn't born yet it doesn't give you or him the title of a mother or father? my bf thinks that I'm not a mother yet because our son isn't born yet. So no mothers day for me till next year.

My boyfriend has come to the realization, after 9 weeks of knowing, that he's going to be a daddy. He was so scared at first, and so was I. We worried about financial, finding a suitable place to live, my schooling, work...but we both understand now that was is happening is going to be a beautiful thing. I was really scared to tell my parents. They are very conservative people. My worries are gone now though because everyone is so excited for us. From the life I once had and once lived, I believe this little baby is a miracle❤❤ I believe that it is my time to be a mommy and show the motherly love a child should have.

What should determine who's last name the baby gets? My sons father basically told me a few weeks ago he didn't want me living with him anymore and I'm not about to sit there and argue so I moved out.. Not even a week later he moved his friend and his friends girlfriend in and gave them what was suppose to be OUR SONS ROOM. So I'm super pissed about that. And I'm on the fence about giving our son his last name!!! Am I wrong for that???

Soo... After 1 year and half on and off with my baby's father my son is two months now we're finally going to attempt to be a family. In my heart I feel it's right. I still love him I went about this a thousand times and i don't wanna be with any one but him. The awkward part is letting it be known to people who told me he wasn't good for me not to be with him from the beginning I feel like Im making a stupid decision. But I'm gonna go through with this with no regrets and if doesn't work out then no hard feelings he will always be apart of my life and I will continue loving him as my baby's father "HERE GOES NOTHING"😳😳😳🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Would I be wrong to keep my child's father from coming to the birth of his son and from being in his life. I don't care that we're not together because I chose this way but I'm so tired of his disrespect.