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Nothing ruffles my feathers more than my father. Was going to the after hours clinic or the health department to confirm…

Nothing ruffles my feathers more than my father. Was going to the after hours clinic or the health department to confirm my pregnancy and he says I'm not going all because he don't want me to have a kid. What should I do? Because if I am pregnant then I'm going to make sure I'm doing everything the best I can for my kid regardless of a parent or guardian over me. He did buy me a test from the dollar store. It came back negative but the more expensive ones from Walmart come back positive.

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luceromommy

StephanieМама двоих (младенец)

Did you find out? Like not at the after hour clinic but "regular hours"

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ccarter9614

Cheyenne carterВ ожидании первенца

u can get false negatives but hardly ever a false positive. @beverlyspence2014 congrats

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beverlyspence2014

beverly spence

@ccarter9614, the ones from Walmart turned positive and when I too another one like a couple days after it showed positive also.

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ccarter9614

Cheyenne carterВ ожидании первенца

get a cheap one from Walmart it's a dollar. and watch it. it might not show right away but if it shows faint wait a week or two before u take another. cause with my 1st pregnancy it showed faint the whole time and I ended up miscarriaging but I was lifting ppl too at work. @beverlyspence2014

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ccarter9614

Cheyenne carterВ ожидании первенца

it could b the test it self did u ever go bak and check them

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beverlyspence2014

beverly spence

@ccarter9614, the dollar store ones come back negative. I haven't had a period since last month. It should've already came and ended.

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ccarter9614

Cheyenne carterВ ожидании первенца

are the ones from the dollar showing faint and have u missed a period yet. I found before I missed mine. @beverlyspence2014

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beverlyspence2014

beverly spence

@ccarter9614, that's the way it's doing me. But I want to go get blood work done or something to make sure.

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junesmommy_15

ChinaМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Cheap test are pretty accurate. are you trying?

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ccarter9614

Cheyenne carterВ ожидании первенца

I bought the cheap ones from Walmart and no less than 5 mins a faint line showed up then took another one a week later and the line showed up right away

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!

so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her…

so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.