What should determine who's last name the baby gets? My sons father basically told me a few weeks ago he didn't want me living with him anymore and I'm not about to sit there and argue so I moved out.. Not even a week later he moved his friend and his friends girlfriend in and gave them what was suppose to be OUR SONS ROOM. So I'm super pissed about that. And I'm on the fence about giving our son his last name!!! Am I wrong for that???
personally I think unless your married, the child gets moms last name
In my opinion......... a child gets the mothers last name unless the parents are married, then I believe the child should get the man's name.
Men are totally different than us. I thought my boyfriend was the same way but once my son got here I seen another side of him. Just because you think he isn't interested doesn't mean he's not. Give him a chance and see how he acts after baby is here
@irishtwinmomma, no it's not I'm not spiteful. I want to give him his last name. But I don't feel he deserves it. He hasn't shown any interest in our son at all never wanted to feel him kick or help me set up his room when I was living there. I had to jump on his ass to put the crib together that I BOUGHT. Now that I'm gone he doesn't have anything for our son like he hasn't bought a damn thing. Not one thing
Is it because he made you mad? If so, don't do that to him out of spite
my baby girl isn't gonna have her dad's last name. I wouldn't give your son his last name either
I wouldn't give him his fathers last name. Nope no way in hell. Especially if I pushed the baby out and some shit like this happened. That baby is mine!
@morganmurphy, you can give your child whatever name you want! You dont even have to put him on the birth certificate if you dont want to... you do what you feel is right for your child
nope I'd give him your last name that's what my sister did and to put him on the birth certificate he had to have a DNA test and then put on it and then pay child support. They still have my sisters last name though she kept it that way
No you aren't wrong, if you want your child to have your last name that's your decision, no one else's
My boyfriend is so upset that I didn’t give our son his last name but I have 4 other kids that has my last name I didn’t want to make him the only one with a different last name. Is that selfish of me? Or should he just understand. We not married
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name

Help!!! Meet our newest family member! :-) He is an 8 week old lab mix that we rescued today. BUT... We can't agree on a name!! What name do you think would be good for this cute boy?!?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I had my mom's last name until 1st grade. if the father proves himself worthy in the future then you can change it