Как справиться с агрессией старшего ребёнка к младшему? в all

Девочки, подскажите, что мне делать?!? Постоянно с мужем ругаемся из-за денег;( Бюджет у нас раздельный, ребенку уже 7 месяцев, а папочка за все время ни одной одежки, ни одной игрушки ему не купил. Покупает подгузники и каждый раз ноет как же это дорого. Доходит до банального - живем то с его матерью, то с моими родителями: пока у него он еду покупает, а когда у меня то мои, а у меня мама теперь с зарплатой в 18 тысяч и дедушка на пенсии. При этом одежду, коляски, игрушки обеспечивают мои родственники - отец только кроватку покупал, белье для кормления и лекарства - витамины. Я в декрете и получаю совсем копейки, а у мужа зарплата хорошая, но он все время ноет что я трачу слишком много. Я уже не помню когда я чтото для себя покупала, да или хотябы в парикмахерской была( Что делать, посоветуйте!

My son will not stfu and pay attention in class, it's driving me crazy!!! It started last yr and picked right up this yr. Every day I'm getting notes from the teacher. He's 8, 3rd grade. Anyone experience this? And what did you do to fix it???

I have a question for wives only My husband has a 17 year old that lives with us the mother said she will find a apartment and come get him a year ago!!!!! He's been giving me hell he doesn't listen, he talks back and does not clean up behind himself...while his mother out there living a free life ok stuck with her kid!!!! My husband does not defend me when it comes to him he always picks his side and always out him before me...is it legal to take his baby mother to court so she can take her son I'm just curious????? I know it sounds selfish but he's destroying my marriage ???

my 11 year old said to me yesterday during a normal conversation " well, you are not gonna be the boss of me when I'm 16". ... I felt so disrespected and hurt . besides that she is been acting really irresponsible and unorganized. I decided to not let her have her own room anymore and give it to my son, I'll be letting her share room with her 3 year old sister and not going to let her join a dance club she wants to be part of at school. I want her to only focus in school and think about what she's done. when she is older and more humble I'll give her a room if we are not living here and when she acts better I'll let her join after school activities. I'm I being too hard on her? I just want her to learn what she did is wrong and she has to earn things to have them. she is not gonna act like a 5 year old and have big kids things. I want to put a stop to this behavior cause I don't want to imagine how she's going to act when she is a teenager.

Anyone have a child on here who is autistic or has ADHD? (My nephew may be autistic or have adhd or both, waiting for him to get evaluated) my boyfriend and others think he's just a bad child and aren't accepting of the fact that there may be something wrong with him. My question is how did you get family and friends to understand your child ? ( I love him like he's my child)

My son screams in his car seat and it makes things very stressful on drives. Honestly if you heard him it seems like he's being murdered. He even stops breathing some times. I caved and bought him an iPad mini at Walmart today. So he could watch videos of his favorite cartoon while in the car. I genuinely don't want him to get it more than on a need basis. But does anyone else have any apps or games for kids?

Officially made the decision to not return to work and stay at home with my little one. To be a stay at home mom has always been my dream. I am so lucky to be able to spend every day with my daughter and watch her grow. And also to have a husband who wants the same. 💕

So my son is getting bullied so he hit the kid back . Now he is the one in trouble . I am not saying i am ok with hitting .I feel like hunting that kid down and giving him a piece of my mind but that wont help . He need to learn to fight his own battles. Man this is hard ... Now to take some action ... What have you done in this situation ?

I'm so upset, husband and I split the bills, with what I started making I would save 1 or 200 a month after I paid what I was supposed to. and now between doctors appointments and watching my nephew I don't get to save anything. when we moved in together I had over 1000 in my bank account now I have just under 200. i hate feeling broke. i don't ever wanna ask him for money or anything so I haven't been getting stuff for myself i need, like pants I can actually fit into and wear to work. and ive been working some 11 hours days to make up for the hours I miss from watching my nephew and doctors appointments. it's really hard but I'm too proud to ask for money. the whole reason I got my nails done early for pictures (I told him that's what I wanted for my birthday in a few weeks) was because i thought he was gonna pay for it because it was like an early birthday present. i guess he either didn't listen or thought because it was early it didnt count so he never came in the salon and I had

Mommies how do you plan on disciplining your kids ? & for the mommies who already have kids what discipline method work for you ? I just simply plan on doing it all from spankings , time out , & taking away a toy or something all depends on what their being disciplined for. 🙄

ADVICE PLEASE! so my father helped me get my immigration papers to come to this country when I needed it the most. now I been living here for over 10 years and have a family of my own and became a citizen. I noticed that him and my family in my country don't check on me unless one of them need to use their visa and stay at my house, and my father wants me to get him a permanent residence to come live in the US. But he usually only msg me when it has to do with that. he doesn't seem interested on his grandkids, he knew I'm pregnant and don't ask how o feel etc. most of the times we talk is because I msg him. he won't take the initiative to look for me. should I still go ahead and do his papers to come live here or should I just ignore it.

I hate bashing rose father but I've tried everything to get him to help out with her. I've asked him to come over to show him how make a bottle,hold her, feed her or so on... but he hasn't been over a month.... I've asked if he could buy some daipers or formual but no I got the well then I won't have a place to stay or food to eat. so then I feel bad for asking him. he's been saying he'll come over this weekend and no show no call. I stop getting rose all excited to see him.... idk what to do anymore... honestly I feel like he's with me so I don't ask the state for more help... but I want to move out of my parents house. I can't do that when I'm buying all of rose stuff......

my daughter is only 3 months old and I'm currently fighting for sole custody cuz of her dad's sexual and physical abuse drug and alcohol use..and it seriously depresses the he'll outta me thinking about if I do win it she will never get to do fathers day gifts in church, or do donuts with dad ect...and it trips me up. like I seriously fear for her going over to his house unsupervised but am I doing the right thing for her? or am I depriving her from ever having a dad in her life.

I dunno what to do...my ex is a abusive, druggie, alcoholic, and has been accused of molestation. he filed for custody of our two month old. me and my lawyer wrote up my wishes stating I want supervised visits due to the rains above. but I know a lot of his family are police officers...I live with my parents because I am disabled and my parents help me and they have 12 kids...my moms afraid that his family will make false allegations against her and my dad...and she says if they do me and my daughter are getting kicked out...what should I do?I'm seriously so stressed

Husband told me if my attitude doesn't improve by the time he gets home in the morning he's packing his stuff and leaving. I told him that it mostly won't since I'm the one that's doing everything for our kids and our house. I know he works nights but he can help a little when he's here and off. Told him if he leaves I'll be sad but I'll get over it. Not begging for him to be in my life or our kids, guess I'm not a good partner or parent according to him.

Yes I cosleep with my daughter I do it bc I honestly love laying in bed cuddling with her especially when she puts her hand on my arm but I am sick and tired of my parents telling me it's wrong and it's dangerous. They even went as far to say they would call cps on me if I kept doing it! If I thought for a second that I was putting my child in danger I wouldn't do it but when I'm sleeping I know she's there and I don't move so there is no danger... And honestly cps wouldn't do anything bc cosleeping is not against the law so try again... 👿

So I got discharged Friday afternoon and I was so happy my hubby didn't have to work this weekend so I would have help for at least two days before he goes back to work m-f and weekends included most of the time. This morning my hubby got called into work for a big job and he has no choice to go cause he's a supervisor at his job... good news is I gave Justice a sponge bath, gave Silas a bath and did hair, I showered, and have been able to eat and get both kids fed along with all the diaper changes lol successful first day without my hubbys help being a mother of 2, a toddler and a newborn. 😊😊

I'm so sick of living with a damn child. And no I'm not talking about my kids. I'm talking about the almost 22 year old who lives in my house claiming to be a great Husband and Father. The only good thing he does is work so I can be a stay at home mom, that's it. As soon as he comes home he sits his lazy ass in front of the TV and plays video games. Its such a fucking hassle for him to interact with me or either of the kids. He let's my 2 year old get into everything, doesn't discipline at all or clean whatever he did up. He's completely addicted to video games. If he's not working and we have to go somewhere he gets pissed because he has to leave the house aka his video games. He would rather have our kids starve then go even a few days without buying the newest one. I'd almost rather be married to an alcoholic. At least they interact with people. I'm so sick of it. If he's not going to act like the grown ass man he is and be a father and husband, I'm going to leave him. My kids and I

My son has been able to sit up unassisted since 5 months, BUT he can't pull himself up to sit up on his own. What can I do to help him? Or do I just let him slowly figure it out on his own?

I hate when people say my "baby daddy" I never say that! I call him my child's dad, my child's father when referring him to someone in conversation. Am I the only one who feels this way? Lol

My husband is really sensitive about me bringing things up about his family so I was surprised when I told him I suspected his little sister is gay and he just looked at me and said "why you say that?" so I told him, and he agreed with me and said he's had his suspicions too but she denies she is. Just waiting on her to come out but I know she's afraid of my in laws she's almost 21 and in college and they tell her no bf, no tattoos, no drinking etc. and the most she's done is get a small tattoo and my in laws spazzed on her about that smh

Ladies I have a question. I live in jersey w my boyfriend and son. He is our first child. When I met my boyfriend I left everything I had back in Delaware and came to start over with him here in jersey. We been together for. Only a year. He wants to move to Long Island with his family once our lease is up in February because he doesn't want to be alone in jersey anymore. I get it, but i don't want to be that far from my family either because they help me with the baby.. his family does not. They don't even call to check on the baby and have only seen him one time. I'm pretty much a outcast because I'm the only rican. My boyfriend is 100% Dominican I'm talking bout born and raised in DR. He wants me to just follow him to L I but I know we won't be able to afford being in our own place and I don't want to move in with no one. I like my privacy. He told me if I don't want to go then I should go back to my moms house.. should I follow him and hope for the best or just go back to my moms

I'm not wrong for putting my baby daddy on child support ik I can take of my daughter on my own but her father should help he working 40+ hours every week and not helping with her needs tired of being judge for putting my baby daddy on child support

RANT I'm so Freaking tired of the two kids I have not listening to me they run all over me and it's forbidden for me to discipline them or I get called a bitch or something stupid when all I do to discipline them is time out and no the name calling and slander throwing isn't by my husband it's by a family member and she let all her kids run rampant and wild never spanked them put them in time out nothing I don't spank it just seems barbaric at their ages 4 and 2 and I'm to my wits end ladies what can I do cause I shit you not my mouth is about to unload like a ak that got jammed like idk what to do Ive got this inner rage going on and idk how to diffuse it

If anyone has gone through a divorce to someone in the military or if anyone happens to know information about that please DM me. I have some questions. Thank you in advance.