Husband told me if my attitude doesn't improve by the time he gets home in the morning he's packing his stuff and leaving. I told him that it mostly won't since I'm the one that's doing everything for our kids and our house. I know he works nights but he can help a little when he's here and off. Told him if he leaves I'll be sad but I'll get over it. Not begging for him to be in my life or our kids, guess I'm not a good partner or parent according to him.
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Men do suck, and I'm sorry about all you two girls are going through. @rennysmommy and @emkasting. Hubby and I had a long talk this morning about everything going on and how I feel about stuff. He said he knew about somethings but not everything and he also said he would try harder to help me out with the house and kids. He even offered to help me take all the clothes to the laundry mat tomorrow to get them all done at once. I took him up on it but I recorded him saying it so he could go back and say he didn't.
Men suck. My SO/baby's dad hasn't spoken to me in over a week now. He's been staying at his dad's and refuses to talk to me & I have NO idea why. He ignores my calls and won't answer my emails or texts. I think he decided he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I just wish I knew why
You go girl. I'm in a similar situation. I nanny 5 days a week sometimes 12 hrs a day and come home and am expected to do everything else. Not to mention I take our son with us everyday and anywhere I go and get up with him at night. My so doesn't even have a job rn hasn't for months. He supposed to start somewhere next week. Hopefully it doesn't fall thru like always. I love him and want to be with him and everything but if he doesn't start doing something I'm gonna lose it. I told him yesterday it's ridiculous that I'm having to do this. He was supposed to be cleaning while I was working yesterday and literally pushed all the toys against the wall and didn't touch anything else. I cleaned up almost everything and left him a list of things to do today and made him give the baby a bath last night 😡 so help me god if he didn't do what I asked
That's exactly what I told him tonight when he called. He's says he wants to work things out but it's hard to since he sleeps all day and works nights. I told his ass we need to make time or we won't have anything except kids to take care of.
Although it is good to work things out,if someone wants to leave,you shouldn't have to beg them to stay,they should want to stay.It could be for the best to have separation sometimes
That's the problem I have and nothing ever gets done. I do it all. Seems like I'd be better off some days as a single parent.
My BFF told me once the moment we realize that they will never do as much as we will life will be better. Not to say that you gotta be a pushover maybe give him specific things you need his help with?
@emkasting,