So I've never really had a relationship with my mother growing up. She abandoned her family one day and never looked back. Well throughout the years i would always try to reach out but would not really receive a response in return only to see that she'd keep in contact with my brothers though. Growing up she'd always send my brothers gifts and remember their birthdays but never mine which hurt and caused me to feel rejection. So of course no matter what she'd do on her end i'd always still try to extend the olive branch..well mothers day is coming up so I've been trying to reach out to her for weeks now but with no call in return..to again find out she talks to my brothers consistently smh i even sent her gifts ahead of time this week so she'll get them on time and i called today so many times to see if she got them because the status on the packages said delivered..and sure enough no answer. I guess i shouldn't be hurt and more used to her pattern but i am. I don't get it..what did i do that makes her show love to her sons but not her daughter. I never forget her birthday or special occasions unlike my brothers but still they get call backs and not me. I'm truly at the point where i feel like being done. Growing up without a mother was tough but to still be rejected from her as an adult does still hurt a bit. I thought i would've been over it all but i guess I'm not.
Sorry ladies..i just needed to vent a little🙏💗
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Thank you so much love for your loving response and being such a good friend. Your support is definitely appreciated. Everything you said was spot on and I for sure need to move on and come to terms with who she is to be at peace. I've tried my best with her and need to know and feel proud of myself for the efforts I've extended. Love you girl and I'm grateful for you always🙏😘💗
@riasm85, I’m always a phone call away. And I want to be here for you for whatever. It just hurts and angers me that you try so hard with no reciprocation from her part. SHE’S MISSED OUT! Point, blank, period. Love you so much and I hope you find peace and healing from this.
I’m sorry 😢 sending you loving vibrations from our home to you. Big hugs. You deserve better! XoXoXo
Thanks girl. This is really sweet of you. Truly appreciate the love so much💗😘
I’m sorry, love. She does not deserve your love or kindness, but I understand how hard it can be to let go for you. I agree with others that it’s time to stop reaching out to her. Once you do that, you can begin the healing process and hopefully find some peace. Love you, ria 💕
Aww thank you boo. Your words of love and motivation mean so much. You're definitely right it's truly time to let go and accept her for who she is so in time I'll be at peace within when it comes to her. I love you too Ek my friend always😘💗
I'm so sorry for how she's treated you your whole life. That's no mother. She's toxic and As much as I'd like to say keep reaching out I don't know if you should. Her message is clear. Who knows why she is the way she is. it's definitely not your fault. I think you will be happier if you just let her go. I'm praying for your heart to be filled this mother's day❤️ love you sister!!
Aww thank you for your kindness and support. I love you too! I mean you'd think I be used to how she is by now and truthfully I've been fine with it but I guess because of the holiday coming up that feeling of being slighted hit me. Whatever the Lord has me do for others is done not for the reciprocation but solely for the love I have for others. I mean despite how she's treated me I still wanted to extend love but you're right though her actions are saying to let her be and maybe this was best for me to see the truth at this point in my life. I feel good about it now. I guess I just needed to vent a little at the time ya know. Again thank you so much for lending an ear and your heart😘🙏💗
@riasm85 you're welcome! I had no idea about your situation and my heart hurts for you, you deserve so much more❤️ always here to listen. We all need to vent every once in a while!
She doesn’t deserve you. Likely her reasons are her issues and her own trauma of some sort and absolutely nothing to do with you. She may not be the type of person you’d want in your life. I’m sorry, I know no matter what anyone says you will still feel that hurt. Any human would. Maybe get some counseling if you need help getting past it.
Thank you for the support. It means a lot. I agree she's more than likely not able to have a relationship with me due to her own past. I know she didn't have the best upbringing to which I'm sincerely empathetic about but like you said we're human and it's only natural that anyone would feel some sort of emotion behind rejection especially from a parent. I just thought she'd want to communicate some what being that mother's day was around the corner that's all.
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