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Courtney
Courtney
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box…

I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

Your poor daughter.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

???

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

Hope that’s sarcasm

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

no, it's not. It's such an integral part of childhood to make messes with toys and go through them all. Maybe it's his way to interact with her, but I can see why he contains himself to his room if he's always being bitched at.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

I know that. She has toys that are left in the living room all day for her to play with. I let her make messes. I’m not gonna let someone else let her make messes if they aren’t gonna be the ones to help clean it up. You also don’t have to say “your poor daughter” like she doesn’t have a good life. Do you live here? Do you know her daily routine and what she does all day? Didn’t know you were such an expert 🤷🏻‍♀️

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

I have a deep compassion for your FIL. I change my statement: your poor daughter and FIL

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

lol I love how you know what goes on in my house. 😂😂😂

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

good for you. You don’t have to come on my post and be rude and call me names. I’m sorry you feel like ur so much better than everyone else

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

please show me where I called you a name? I take pride in being able to converse a differing opinion without the use of childish name calling...

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

first off for you to say you feel sorry for my daughter is extremely rude and disrespectful. Then you said you can see why my FIL stays in his room because he’s always being “bitched” at which insists that I’m a bitch. You commented with every intent to be rude and disrespectful. You know you can just keep ur mouth shut right? Because ur the only one who commented who felt the need to rude and “pick me” female

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

it's a public post, I stated my opinion. If you take offense to it - you should look at why you take offense. You assuming I'm insinuating something doesn't mean I called you a name. I suggest a ladder rather than trying to reach so far.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

it’s not an opinion it’s you being disrespectful. You can all it an opinion all you want but saying “I feel sorry for your daughter” isn’t an opinion. Ur saying it with intent to be rude. So don’t try that game with me.

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meaniehead

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Мама троих детей

Poor OP, for having boundary stomping in laws. It’s seriously the principle, mom said no. So no.

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

that's your opinion. See how that works?

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

lmfao 😂😂 you just don’t get it do you.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

@ooshefit2, thank you!

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

I was thinking the same about you... funny how opinions work.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

you keep trying to get that point across sweetie. I called you out on being disrespectful deal with it.

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

and I can appreciate that you are entitled to that opinion. Did you see me once say you can't possibly think that? Nor did I get defensive or taken it personally. You don't have to agree with me, I don't have to agree with you.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

keep trying. You know you were being rude and now ur trying to do damage control

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

😂😂 I don't need damage control. I have no issues with someone thinking I'm rude. It's your opinion about mg opinion.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

ur still trying to validate being disrespectful.

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

it's not my opinion that it was disrespectful so I don't need to validate it. I stated an opinion. Its you're interpretation that it was disrespectful. You're entitled to your opinion.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

still trying to validate disrespectfulness I see

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

you're entitled to your opinion

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meaniehead

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Мама троих детей

just because some people are door mats when it comes to in laws doesn’t mean we have to be and that’s my “opinion”

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

@ooshefit2, my FIL isn’t a door mat

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taylortarrant

Taylor

Мама двоих (младенец)

I think she just likes to troll. I see comments on a lot of people’s posts lol ignore it😂 I’m with you on the messes if no one else is willing to help clean

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meaniehead

...

Мама троих детей

I’m saying you’re not a door mat

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

@ooshefit2, oh lol

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

she reported me 😂😂

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taylortarrant

Taylor

Мама двоих (младенец)

😂

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

Your poor daughter.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

@ooshefit2, oh lol

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

@taylortarrant, she reported me 😂😂

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taylortarrant

Taylor

Мама двоих (младенец)

😂

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modom16

Morgan

He just wants to play with his granddaughter

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

No he doesn’t because he gets them out and goes straight to his room. He doesn’t play with her really. Me and my husband play with her but her grandpa doesn’t. He just gets all these toys out and goes straight to his room. He will come inside from smoking a cigarette and she will grab his hand and take him to the toy box (she does this with everyone even when she has 60 toys out already) it’s just something she likes to do. But the only time he comes out of his room is if he has leave,eat,smoke, or go to the bathroom

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

And even if he did it’s still not an excuse to not clean up the mess you made. Having toddler isn’t an excuse to keep a messy house. We are already trying to move and I’m constantly cleaning up after everyone else all I ask for is a little help

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momto3boys

Brooke H

If you don't like picking up all the toys then keep only a few that you think she will play with and sell or get rid of the rest. Tell everyone don't buy her any more toys

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

I don’t mind picking them up I just mind when people get them out for her but don’t want to help put them back up or at least try to get her switched over to a different activity

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madhatter

Madi M.

Maybe you could downsize her toys a bit so it's not so hectic for you to clean up every day. I know a few families that will literally divide the toys into a few different piles and basically swap them out every few weeks. That way the toys always seem new and you don't have them all to deal with!

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

that’s all I wanna get rid of is her baby toys lol. I usually always donate clothes and what toys she doesn’t use. At least you can understand where I’m coming from lol

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madhatter

Madi M.

I definitely do. I've been a nanny for a long time and picking up a whole boat load of toys at the end of the day always stinks. If you can make the mess more manageable for yourself, do it! Toddlers are definitely going to explore and make big messes but it doesn't have to feel like a tornado hit every day.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

exactly! And to think someone commented on here saying they feel sorry for my daughter lol. I understand some women with bigger houses not being able to pick up all the time or if their kids get a toys out it doesn’t really look messy but our place is small so when she gets ALL of her toys out it looks crazy in here 😂😂😂

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tsunamii

Tsunami

Мама троих детей

Omg. Some of these comments are making me wanna BARF 🤢 I completely get you! It really never ends and some people JUST DONT GET IT. Fuck it! Wait till someone trips and then tell’em...YOU SEEEEEEE, PICK IT UP.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

Did you see the one who was being disrespectful and now can’t handle the heat of being told what she said was rude and disrespectful.

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tsunamii

Tsunami

Мама троих детей

oh God! Seriously...but then again she has a 17 y.o so he probably really pissed her off today 😂🤪

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

lmfao 😂😂

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j.luciano

Rubiaxo

I understand you completely! Every single day I had to pick up toys. My boyfriend and I got tired of picking them up since they don't like to pick them up when I say it's clean up time. So we put all their toys away in a big trash bag🙃🙃🙃 Idc

So they only have like 2 toys out.

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courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

She has a little table that has toys and books on it plus she has her little people house and trucks

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onthegomomma

Emily

Мама дочки (2 года)

My daughter likes to do this. I donated alot of them and I switch them out weekly for new toys to keep her interested. I also taught her to help me pick up her toys as well when she is done with them. Parenting isn't easy at times. :)

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