I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want…

@courtney017, 😂

she reported me 😂😂

@ooshefit2, oh lol

I’m saying you’re not a door mat

I think she just likes to troll. I see comments on a lot of people’s posts lol ignore it😂 I’m with you on the messes if no one else is willing to help clean

@ooshefit2, my FIL isn’t a door mat

just because some people are door mats when it comes to in laws doesn’t mean we have to be and that’s my “opinion”

you're entitled to your opinion

still trying to validate disrespectfulness I see

it's not my opinion that it was disrespectful so I don't need to validate it. I stated an opinion. Its you're interpretation that it was disrespectful. You're entitled to your opinion.

ur still trying to validate being disrespectful.

😂😂 I don't need damage control. I have no issues with someone thinking I'm rude. It's your opinion about mg opinion.

keep trying. You know you were being rude and now ur trying to do damage control

and I can appreciate that you are entitled to that opinion. Did you see me once say you can't possibly think that? Nor did I get defensive or taken it personally. You don't have to agree with me, I don't have to agree with you.

you keep trying to get that point across sweetie. I called you out on being disrespectful deal with it.

I was thinking the same about you... funny how opinions work.

@ooshefit2, thank you!

lmfao 😂😂 you just don’t get it do you.

that's your opinion. See how that works?

Poor OP, for having boundary stomping in laws. It’s seriously the principle, mom said no. So no.

it’s not an opinion it’s you being disrespectful. You can all it an opinion all you want but saying “I feel sorry for your daughter” isn’t an opinion. Ur saying it with intent to be rude. So don’t try that game with me.

it's a public post, I stated my opinion. If you take offense to it - you should look at why you take offense. You assuming I'm insinuating something doesn't mean I called you a name. I suggest a ladder rather than trying to reach so far.

first off for you to say you feel sorry for my daughter is extremely rude and disrespectful. Then you said you can see why my FIL stays in his room because he’s always being “bitched” at which insists that I’m a bitch. You commented with every intent to be rude and disrespectful. You know you can just keep ur mouth shut right? Because ur the only one who commented who felt the need to rude and “pick me” female

please show me where I called you a name? I take pride in being able to converse a differing opinion without the use of childish name calling...

good for you. You don’t have to come on my post and be rude and call me names. I’m sorry you feel like ur so much better than everyone else

lol I love how you know what goes on in my house. 😂😂😂

I have a deep compassion for your FIL. I change my statement: your poor daughter and FIL

I know that. She has toys that are left in the living room all day for her to play with. I let her make messes. I’m not gonna let someone else let her make messes if they aren’t gonna be the ones to help clean it up. You also don’t have to say “your poor daughter” like she doesn’t have a good life. Do you live here? Do you know her daily routine and what she does all day? Didn’t know you were such an expert 🤷🏻‍♀️

no, it's not. It's such an integral part of childhood to make messes with toys and go through them all. Maybe it's his way to interact with her, but I can see why he contains himself to his room if he's always being bitched at.

Hope that’s sarcasm

???

She has a little table that has toys and books on it plus she has her little people house and trucks

Did you see the one who was being disrespectful and now can’t handle the heat of being told what she said was rude and disrespectful.

oh God! Seriously...but then again she has a 17 y.o so he probably really pissed her off today 😂🤪

lmfao 😂😂

that’s all I wanna get rid of is her baby toys lol. I usually always donate clothes and what toys she doesn’t use. At least you can understand where I’m coming from lol

I definitely do. I've been a nanny for a long time and picking up a whole boat load of toys at the end of the day always stinks. If you can make the mess more manageable for yourself, do it! Toddlers are definitely going to explore and make big messes but it doesn't have to feel like a tornado hit every day.

exactly! And to think someone commented on here saying they feel sorry for my daughter lol. I understand some women with bigger houses not being able to pick up all the time or if their kids get a toys out it doesn’t really look messy but our place is small so when she gets ALL of her toys out it looks crazy in here 😂😂😂

I don’t mind picking them up I just mind when people get them out for her but don’t want to help put them back up or at least try to get her switched over to a different activity

No he doesn’t because he gets them out and goes straight to his room. He doesn’t play with her really. Me and my husband play with her but her grandpa doesn’t. He just gets all these toys out and goes straight to his room. He will come inside from smoking a cigarette and she will grab his hand and take him to the toy box (she does this with everyone even when she has 60 toys out already) it’s just something she likes to do. But the only time he comes out of his room is if he has leave,eat,smoke, or go to the bathroom

And even if he did it’s still not an excuse to not clean up the mess you made. Having toddler isn’t an excuse to keep a messy house. We are already trying to move and I’m constantly cleaning up after everyone else all I ask for is a little help

@ooshefit2, oh lol

@taylortarrant, she reported me 😂😂

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