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Ladies, I haven't posted in a few months because I've been focusing on school and running my business. Anyway, I have a…

Ladies, I haven't posted in a few months because I've been focusing on school and running my business. Anyway, I have a question. A few days ago i had a conversation with a friend. He mentioned that he was ready to.settle down. Then he said that he wants to find a woman that he can mold to his liking. What does "mold to his liking" mean to yall? Im just trying to see something. It turned into a debate/argument.

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deleted.peace

deleted.peace

Oh my. 🥴🤦🏻‍♀️!

I definitely agree with everyone else. I feel bad for the women who ends up with him.

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thathusie

TTМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

I do also.

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kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘Мама троих детей

Good luck with that that’s all I say 😂👌🏼

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mujerstillregal

So RoyalМама сына (1 год)

When I read "mold to his liking," my head and face did the "excuse me!" gesture 😂 um, no, things don't work like that, people are who they are, and you find the one that is most the way you want. If you can find someone that you "can mold to your liking," erm, something might be wrong upstairs. Why would you want to be with a people pleaser anyway? Wouldn't you be concerned that they'll swing in any direction depending on who's in their ear? Smh. He sounds like the type of "older" man who wouldn't date anyone his age

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thathusie

TTМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

I made the same face. 😁😁 I was listening to this nonsense over the phone. I didn't even let him finish talking. It escalated quickly because he didn't like that i didn't see it from his point of view. He actually has a woman that he's talking to and he said she's ok with what he's trying to do. I told him that's because she's the type that'll do anything to get and keep a man. I told him that no woman in their right mind will put up with that foolishness. He's actually 29 and I believe he told me that she is older. He think he's irresistible, but to me, he's disgusting.

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mujerstillregal

So RoyalМама сына (1 год)

@thathusie he is disgusting, smh. That old lady is just glad she can get the attention of a younger guy, she needs to learn self love, lol

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thathusie

TTМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

@mywittyusername 💯

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ekko

The EK 💋Мама сына (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

I agree with the others... he wants to change someone into what he wants rather than finding someone and appreciating them for who they are. Definitely a red flag. Adults don’t seem out others with the intent of changing or controlling them. Seems predatory.

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thathusie

TTМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

@mybabybear @mrs.watkins4715 thanks ladies. That's exactly what I thought. He claims that wasn't what he meant, but his explanation made it worse.

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thathusie

TTМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

@mybabybear he said it's like clay and you mold it to be something you like. He said a few other things, but i can't remember. I have noticed that he wants ppl to fear him. I told him that about himself and he agreed. He's hit women in his past. He's just weak in my opinion. He's small, so i guess he feels like he has a point to prove. I hope this makes sense.

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mybabybear

mybabybear Мама сына (6 лет)

@thathusie, it makes sense. That is absolutely disgusting.

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thathusie

TTМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

@mybabybear I agree. I haven't talked to him since, and I'm not sure if I will.

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mrs.watkins4715

Haley WatkinsМама четверых детей, беременна

Mold to his liking to me is like mold her how he wants her as far as her personality her looks the way she acts what she does and can’t do sounds controlling etc makes me think of the army like how they break people down and build them up how they want them

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mybabybear

mybabybear Мама сына (6 лет)

A nice way of saying to control someone. Red flag 🚩

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?