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Kathleen
Kathleen
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

My health visitor told me a few weeks ago that I don’t tell off Harrison enough when he’s doing something naughty which…

My health visitor told me a few weeks ago that I don’t tell off Harrison enough when he’s doing something naughty which I do agree with as I never do. It’s just he doesn’t even acknowledge me when I speak to him. It’s like I’m not even there😕 Since we’ve been stuck inside for a while he’s been getting into things that he shouldn’t and I’ve been trying to tell him no but...nothing. He doesn’t look my way nor does he ever show any signs that he understands me. We were in the process of getting him assessed for autism before covid19 took over everything. He can’t talk or say any words either. Does anyone else have any experience with this?

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kirikatrina

Kiri TorkoniakМама двоих (младенец)

My boy is the same can't speak, doesn't understand what I am saying to him and just either plain blank ignores me or looks right through me. I can be so difficult but I have to tell myself that he may be able to understand xx

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kathleenc

Kathleen Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

It’s like he’s in his own little world and doesn’t react to anyone outside of his own little world. xx

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kirikatrina

Kiri TorkoniakМама двоих (младенец)

@kathleenc my sons the same. He is 2 in July and still doesn't respond to his own name. No matter what I do or try he just seems stuck. I get how difficult it can be xx

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beebeejgill

Beth Мама дочки (4 года)

Maya use to pretend she couldn’t hear me if she knew she shouldn’t be doing something.

My advice would be to take him away from the situation hun, distraction xx

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kathleenc

Kathleen Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

Yeah I usually just take him away from what he’s doing as I don’t see the point in telling him off as he doesn’t understand me. xx

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beebeejgill

Beth Мама дочки (4 года)

@kathleenc, He will understand you hun, they can understand more than you think! Way before they even start talking 😊

Maya at 8 months knew exactly what I was saying and would follow simple instructions at 9/10 months xx

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