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Summer Holmes
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Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Does anyone have MIL that keeps being up the past about saying if you didnt have a child with my son he would of left…

Does anyone have MIL that keeps being up the past about saying if you didnt have a child with my son he would of left you because I would have made him leave you but now she says well since yall had kendra yall were meant for each other. I told her that's not what he told me that no matter what we would always be together and she gave me a look said no I had him where he was gonna break up with you and then shes trying to tell me dont worry about it's the past and I wanted to tell her then why bring it up now its gonna be in my thoughts now along want to ask him but then don't want to but if he sees my face he might ask what's wrong I'm not gonna lie to him. So what do yall mothers do

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xoamac

AshМама двоих (младенец)

Yikes she sounds jealous of you. I’d def bring it up to my man so he could put her in her place.

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amelliaholmes1457

Summer HolmesМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

But what if he tells you to talk to her but when you try it sont work or hmm saying theres no point just ignore her cause talking to her never seems to get fixed along whatever she says is a lie along you know what I have always told you. He has even once when i asked him about it i could tell it hurt him from me saying that to him and him saying why would you say that and do you remember what I told you before we got married and I told yes I do and repeated what he told me.

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dyanaak

DyanaВ ожидании первенца

I don’t have the same problem with either of my in laws and my parents don’t give my s/o any trouble, but man that sounds awful. In my opinion she shouldn’t be up in your relationship. All that’s going to do is create problems and tension. Not to mention, it’s unnecessary and dramatic. Your relationship is between you and him and y’all only. Your MIL’s biggest priority should be to be a good support for your family and be a good grandmother to your little ones. That’s just my opinion.

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amelliaholmes1457

Summer HolmesМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Oh I know she's not a good support for anyone. She brings this up alot and I've told my SO about this I want him to talk to her to tell her to stop. When we talk to each other she always says what and hes told her nothing and then she gets but hurt about and I've always want to tell her you say your not gonna intervene in mine and his relationship when were talking to each other but yet you still do. Yet she dont like us fighting that we need to chill out on it well when you say shit like that and all you want to hear is no he was going to when he flat out told me that he wasn't that I'm stuck with him for the rest of our lives you bringing that up what's that solving that your trying to start drama and fights.

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dyanaak

DyanaВ ожидании первенца

@amelliaholmes1457, sheesh yeah that’s not right

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