Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Paternity leave How long are your husbands or SO getting off for paternity leave? My husband is only getting 1 week off. Then he leaves again. He works in the oilfields so he's always gone. I'm so upset it can't be longer. I'm more than likely having another c-section so it's going to be hard recovering plus handling a newborn and two year old. Makes me sad ?
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
Exactly why I'm single starting today. I get up to bullshit. First off y'all know how post partum depression can't make your hair fall out right? So like 3 days ago I cut it very very low and decided to start my hair journey over and be natural again OKAY so I had like 3 almost bald spots to why I cut it low so my Baby dad woke me up talking bout let him see or he gonna a snap my wig off after I told him I'm not comfortable being seen like this until my hair starts to grow and I also said soon as we get into it you Gonna snatch it off and them talk bout me and that's exactly what he is did/doing I'm not gonna cry though I'm tired of crying I'm gonna a go on this hair journey by my dam self I don't need support so he talking bout he Fina go bag hoes so I said I'm gonna go bag me some dudes them so here is some screenshots. His messages is the blue mines the yellow
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Well you gotta get it together girl. Tomorrow wake up and pray about it. Try to keep busy so you don't have anything to cry about. You're crying because you been fed up with alot of things. You left for a reason. Could be a good cry of relief. 🙏🙏🙏things turn around for you.
Olivia Rader··
Мама троих детей
Your probably right about the cry of relief I'm exhausted too so who knows... He won't answer his phone now tho... He's supposed to drop her off at 8 this morning and go to work... I'm an hour away from the house...
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It just may take time to adjust to a new scheldule. For yourself,the kids and him. I really hope things work itself out for you. Stop crying could be too you just need rest and you miss you're baby. Tonight if she leaves again try to rest.
Linden·
Why does he get to have her EVERY night though? I understand y'all are splitting and he still needs to be in her life but I don't see why thay means he HAS to automatically have her every night? Why don't you just keep her tonight? I mean, he COULD solve his own sleeping problem, that doesn't mean he HAS to take your daughter every night.
Olivia Rader··
Мама троих детей
He doesn't have to but if I don't give her he thinks I'm taking her and that's a whole new set of problems...it's just less traumatic on her as well she doesn't do well with change...
Mandy·
(((Hugs))) girl that's all I can give you. I'm sorry what you're going through.
Olivia Rader··
Мама троих детей
Thank you I need a lot of those too. And me too
Queen👑·
Girl that's YOUR CHILD. I understand that's her father but fuck all that (excuse me language). YOU birthed her. YOU doing EVERYTHING for her cause YOUR HER MOTHER. I'm not fixing to have NO MAN FATHER OR NOT have my child because of FEAR. If you want her home (wherever that might be) YOU DO WHAT U HAVE TO DO TO GET HER HOME! And IF he gives you problems I would NOT let him see her unsupervised until yall go to court and have and WRITTEN CUSTODY AGREEMENT SIGNED BY A JUDGE!