Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Really need to vent rn... Im not the type of person that likes putting my personal business out but I really need somebody to talk to.... So here it goes 😒. Yesterday I bought my first car ever for a $1000 it needs minor work ( no biggie), but it drives amazing. And my s/o is going off on me because I bought a car wow he was at work. So he says "I'm rushing". But I'm at home with two mfn kids all day everyday and when I need something done I have to wait til his off day just to get things done.. (Not fair) and with me and the kids having doctor appts all next week n he's gonna be working I'm tryna figure out what's the problem.. I'm starting to think🤔 he just dont want me to have a car.
I was born with a lot of hair my boyfriend was born with a lot of hair plus he is Mexican and Mexican babies always have like a bunch of hair why is it I have no heart burn ? Not that I'm asking for it it's just that am I gonna have a bold baby ? :/
Good morning ladies. Sorry I been ignoring yall but I have been so miserable the past days I'M STILL PREGNANT my contractions would be strong for hours and it looked like I was gonna have a baby then everything just stopped so I got sent home. they said I have to wait till my appointment Wednesday so I can talk to my doctor about the next step. I HATE THIS 😢😢😩
First real case of Discrimination today. 😯 General Contractor kept asking where my SO when I was pulling off the job. Even said ‘How come he doesn’t come here and talk to me like a man’. Wow. I ended up calling the police because felt threatened in how defensive he was talking. Sheesh. I talked to a friend in the industry and told him everything that happen and he cut me off yelling ‘THATS DISCRIMINATION!’ Do I let it go? Or take him to court?
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@dionnetrashawn99 You approved it. My name shanique
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
And I'm glad you know that you deserve better!!! You don't deserve to be treated or talked to like that!!
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
I didn't see your invite
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bayou_donna too bad he's not getting it and no but Iooks like imma do just that
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bayou_donna too bad he's not getting it and no but Iooks like imma do just that
Donna·
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Mental! That boy wants your attention in any way possible.
Question, why don't you try to put him on child support to hopefully make him get a job to do his part?
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@dionnetrashawn99 Normally I would be crying and sink into a deep depressed mood because of the word calling over how insecure I am about my situation but I didn't shed not no tear and I'm not. My eyes watered a couple times that bout it but I know I'm better than that though. Let him keep talking like I told him you can talk bout me all you want you can talk bout me to others and while you at it have a good as laugh but just know you beneath me now.
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bayou_donna @dionnetrashawn99 Yes that's all he doing. He eating his words just he just text a few minutes ago saying "BABY" gtfoh with that. He gets no reply
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
@bayou_donna, exactly
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
He seems bitter!! He intentionally says things to hurt you but be the bigger person because Karma is real!!
Donna·
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Tell him keep talking. Men loose hair too. How would he like it to be bald from stress, if he keeps it up. @mommyof2blessings.,
Nique·
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@dionnetrashawn99 Just sent an invite
Nique·
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@dionnetrashawn99 @bayou_donna @mommabear17 @andrewsmommy forgot to post this screenshot. He was basically talking about my hair situation and the few spots on my head that showing
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@dionnetrashawn99 Thank you so much and I'm finna join right now
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
And don't stoop to his level if a woman let him bag THAN that's all on her she will regret it later!!!
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
@mommabear17, castor oil works wonders
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
Girl you are beautiful and you don't deserve to be talked to like that!!! You are very independent so you want him but you definitely don't need his ass!!
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
@bayou_donna, hey I see you from Louisiana you should join my support group on Facebook
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
Secret sisters
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@dionnetrashawn99 Sure. What's the name so I can join
Trashawn Dionne·
Мама четверых детей
Hi do you have a Facebook? I have a support group I think you would love it
Donna·
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He will regret every name he called you! Little boy! Mines has called me out my name as well! But always trying to check up on me. I know it's hard to let go of someone and cut communication off but that's what we will have to do. @mommyof2blessings.,
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bayou_donna but he have the nerves to say I don't do shit but lay around on my ass 24/7 First I take care of a 4 months and almost 2 year old by myself while you smoke and do what you do. I'm doing alot more than his ass EVERRR did. The nerves of him to say that or even say I'm a sorry ass momma boy need to get him a life and carry his some timing ass on. Be around 40% of the time and when he come over he still don't be around or interact with his kids
Nique·
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@mommabear17 imma go buy that oil and watch how my shit grow that why I told him I'm the messages you laughing now bet you won't be later. Plus all that fucked up shit he said gonna eat him alive kus I'm not responding to his messages ,his calls on block, unfriend him off fb NO CONTACT any number I dont know I'm not answering nor texting back
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mommabear17 I really do I don't have time for his pettiness. He don't put forward shit I can't even turn to him to buy pampers kus he ass just that broke couldn't even pay his phone bill. He couldn't even come up with 20 dollar. Took him almost 2 days then turned around and spunt it on weed. His priority is allllll fucked up but has the nerves to tell me that WE SHOULD start managing our money! I know how to flip money the legal way lol like WTF anything I get goes towards these kids while he wasting shit like he dont have responsibilities
Donna·
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That's a sad combination. Mines goes out and buy weed too. I use to smoke I will admit but of course when I found I was pregnant I stopped and that money I use to waste, I have it to put aside for my baby. I can't say the same for him. What's up with these guys not wanting to work??! Lazy men are so aggravating
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bayou_donna I done got called bitch, hoe, stupid ass, a fool, dumb ass, dumb butch, stupid hoe, the devil, the devil serpent, a mistake, he even said he shouldn't have had kids with me, bald headed, fat, stank ass, sorry ass, silly hoe/bitch, sorry ass momma and so on. He done even said our son cry like a bitch and we ended up basically slamming each other around and throwing punches
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bayou_donna girl he is not working and haven't been for a long time. He's a broke ass that can't even take care of his kids but one thing he quick to do is buy weed. Now his excuse to not working is he not ready smh. I been buying an taking care of these babies more than he ever have. His own son scared of his ass
Donna·
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Sounds a lot like what I go through. At least your guys are working. Mines quit his job making 60K, because he didn't feel well and would not go to work. Now he has unemployment and think I should be okay with that. It's not enough to take care of his business and help me when needed. I actually can take care of myself with my job but what is a man for then. We constantly argue. I don't want him laying up in my house while I'm pregnant and at work. I don't call in or makes excuses. I do what I have to do. My dad was a great role model, I don't know where I went wrong at choosing who to deal with. @mommyof2blessings., @andrewsmommy,
CT❤·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I know the point of this was that he was a piece of shit and you deserve sooooo much better. No woman deserves that, I was called a fat ass for years by my oldest dad, so I developed an eating disorder and that's just the beginning. But my hair also go really really thing, damn near bald in the front, and I highly suggest using castrol oil! It does amazing at growing hair back, you can also use it on your eyelashes and eyebrows to make them thicker. Girl you are beautiful, and hair isn't what makes someone beautiful, it's what you got inside. Because I have seen some broads with a gorgeous face and body, but their attitude makes them sooooo ugly. I bet he will be the one hurting. Be strong mama. ❤
Delia·
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Smh I feel it. My babydaddy is hella dramatic when hes sick. We have a 1 year old and a 1 month old. The week we brought her home his ass got sick and kept telling me do stuff for him while I'm trying to have 1 kid take a nap and the other on my boob while hes "sick" on Instagram and shit😡 I purposely messed up his tea lol and purposely didn't heat up his food all the way just so he can get his ass up for once. And he comes backs with that "i work all day you dont do shit but sleep all day" BIIIIIH!!!😡 Im home from 9am to 7pm with 2 kids and no help I do it all on my own!
Nique·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@andrewsmommy this what he said. Yesterday his tooth was hurting and he got mad because I wasn't showing him no attention kus at the time I'm trying to fuckin cook for 4 people including himself while holding my baby girl while his ass laying down. I can't make no fuckin toothache stop hurting SMH he was already rushing me saying he haven't ate to why he was having a toothache. I'm sick of his ass I'm thru for real
Delia·
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Im sorry but he needs to learn to talk like a grown man and not a high schooler. I got confused with the last message.
Nique·
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Nique·
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Nique·
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