Paternity leave
How long are your husbands or SO getting off for paternity leave? My husband is only getting 1 week off. Then he leaves again. He works in the oilfields so he's always gone. I'm so upset it can't be longer. I'm more than likely having another c-section so it's going to be hard recovering plus handling a newborn and two year old. Makes me sad ?
My fiancé only has one week but my mom is taking off two weeks to come stay with me and my best friend said that she would take a week off if I needed her to as well. And honestly my fiancé will probably be helpful with the baby but he is more of a mess maker than a cleaner so I don't know how helpful he will be on the housework end lol. And he is a heavy sleeper so I know that through the night it will be all me.
Check with your state. If your husband has been at his job for more than 1 year, he maybe entitled to state FLI (Family Leave Insurance) which gets taken with FMLA ( Family Medical Leave Act -federal program) - so his job is safe.
I live in NJ and through your paycheck everyone pays into FLI as part of your state employment taxes. When you have or adopt a child mothers and fathers are entitled to 6 weeks leave taken at any time during the first year. When on FLI you receive 60% pay. In addition you also take FMLA at the same time to secure your job. If more than 40 people work for that company his job will be safe until FMLA runs out he can take up to 6 months but it's unpaid.
Many people don't know this benefit exists and I don't know if your state offers something similar but it doesn't hurt to check. And it would also be in addition to whatever your company offers.
Not really sure my hubby has his own business so it's hard for him to take time off sometimes when big jobs come in. He can have a day off sometimes for ultrasound he will have a day off Tuesday but my first 2 ultrasounds he worked then came to the scan then went back to work. I'm hoping he will have a week off. It will be school holidays for my daughter for 2 weeks but I don't know how it will go getting her to school with a baby. At least hubby will be home at 4.30 pm or 5 pm to help.
My husband is taking 6 weeks of leave. Two when the baby is born, two when she is six months, and two when she turns a year. We did the same thing with our last daughter and it worked great. I wish he could take all six weeks at one time but the way his position he just can't without falling too far behind.
My husband will only have two or three days off I'm guessing but I will have our two other kids that can help. They will be 8 & 9 then. We can't really afford for him to take much time off but I would love a week straight.
My dad works on a fraking (sp?) rig and is gone for 3-4 weeks at a time so I understand how demanding that type of job can be.

Ok so my husband and son went to food store while I'm at home with sore back. When he gets back he tells me right near where he parked there was this guy just sitting in his car and looking at him and watching him. Then when they get out of store 20 or 30 mins later the guy is still there watching him, then he holds up his phone like he is recording my husband and son. So my husband plays it off like he does not see what this guy is doing. But he can see that he keeps changing the phone angle ev...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Is your Husband/SO taking paternity leave if its offered?
Why am I happier when my husband leaves for work but not when he’s home🤷🏽♀️can’t wait for 6:30 so he can leave
OH can't even get paternity leave😠 so booking two weeks off around due date as holiday days, even though baby could come late or early😠 so annoyed.
My husband gets 3-4 12 hour days off in a row paid. That's its! N he works shift work so he'll be away nights n days. Totally sucks but I have tons of family all within 5 min of my house.