Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
Ladies, I'm so freaking excited and happy right now that I am UGLY crying at work !! My doctor just called me because he got my blood results back, baby is good and I'm having A BOYYYY!!! I cant believe after all I've been through I finally get my boy !!! Thank you Jesus !!! I want to surprise Tim, any ideas of how I can surprise him for when he gets home from work tonight ??? Let's hear it. #TEAMBLUE
Okay So My Boyfriend Gets Mad Because I Don't Wana Have Sex I Just Don't Have That Drive Anymore Since I've Been Pregnant Nothing Against Him ,And He Texts Me Some Bullshit Like He's Not Gonna Ask For Sex Anymore He's Good ,And That He Is Turned Off By Me And The Way I've Been Acting And I'm Really Trying Not To Be A Bitch But It's About To Come Out!!!
Chrissy K·
Мама сына-младенца
Hugs! But I think men genuinely get freaked out and don’t want to hurt you because they don’t understand. Mine wouldn’t go on top as soon as we found out we were pregnant and later on wouldn’t do any position that he felt could harm the baby even though docs and midwives said it was ok.
Don’t feel fat and ugly he’s probably trying to protect you in his own weird way.
Amanda Campos·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (39 нед.)
That’s how I felt about my husband during my first pregnancy. I had to sit him down and talk out all my concerns to him. (We started the same way, friends with benefits but we ended up dating). I told him that I felt like I was too big and unattractive and I hated how he never wanted to touch me. He listened and told me as I got bigger, he was scared to hurt me (because I was in pain down there 👇🏼) and he was scared to send me into early labor because he was on google and read that sex can start/speed up the process. But I explained to him that even though I was hurting, an orgasm actually helps and relaxes my body. .. the best thing to do is to sit down and talk about EVERYTHING that is on both of your minds. And try to understand from both points of views
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I had this problem with my first and second pregnancies. He'd never want me. He eventually spilled that he's just not attracted to the belly which hurt me in 3 ways.
1 I've heard our friends say that they think their wives baby bellies were sexy so I thought it would be the same for us
2 I don't even notice his flaws because it's HIM I'm attracted to which includes body mind and spirit and it seemed he was only attracted to physical me
3 there's nothing I can do to change it.
He's grown a lot since then and we've had many in depth talks since Micah. I'm thankful that this pregnancy we haven't got that roadblock and I'm praying that it stays that way. I'm sorry about your situation and I feel how hurt your heart must be. A woman should always be pursued, fought for, and feel like he'd rather have her happiness and needs meet because he loves her that much.
Ashley ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Hun lots of hugs. Men are wierd. Have you sat down and explained all of this? Asked him how he would feel in your shoes? If you ever need a chat I'm here.
Kaylee Thredgold··
В ожидании первенца
Thats probably the most frustrating part is that I've talked to him about it plenty of times...
Ashley ··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I'm so sorry, have you just told him upfront he's being an a**? If he's being dense about the subject I wouldn't press him, as much as it stinks try and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. Even if it looks down now you'll miss it. That being said I would have a conversation with him about accepting his choice but he needs to take a hard look at how it has and will effect your relationship.