Anyone had more than 2 birth partners??? My mum wants to be there and i want her to be there also but my partners mum is going to be there as i decided due to her not seeing a grandchild born as yet 😩 but if i could id have both of them there and my partner... my hospital only allows 2 birthing partners but thinking maybe theyll allow 3 if theyre not in the way 🙈 ill be induced also
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Oh wow thanks hun do i ask the midwife at my app or do i ask the one that will be admitted to me on the induce day?
@leanne2016 they should be able to tell you at your normal midwife appointment hun x
@chloeanabelle.xo ok hun will ask them next week but they may say it depends whos on shift 🙈 i have my consulant app in 6 weeks time anyway x
@leanne2016 I thought that, I only intended upon having my partner until three days before when I decided I wanted my mam there as well 😂 my midwife was telling me she's had someone bring 6 people to the hospital before... They couldn't all stay (obviously!) But who wants that many people there really? 😂
I had my partner, my mom and his mom until i ended up with a c section, it depends how nice your midwife is x
Oh great we shall see i hope shes fine with it coz im being induced ill go in with my partner and our mums will meet us there once i go into labour so theyre not there all day 🙈 but i was induced with my youngest and he came 5hrs after x
@leanne2016 yeah i was induced then when i was in full blown labour our moms came up so they was there when i got moved onto the delivery suite so it all worked out well😂x
@abbyrose oh okok cool im gonna do it your way 😊😁 thanks hun x
Do you ladies think I’m a bad person if I ask my sister in law to be one of my birth partners instead of my mum?
I begged my mum to be at the birth of Harper and she refused because she thought it should just be me and my partner but I wanted her there... but I don’t want to ask her to be at this birth for the fact she said no when I asked her to be at Harper’s birth so why should she be at this baby’s birth?
Am I wrong in asking my sister in law?
Girls am I wrong? I asked my SIL to be one of my birth partners but she hasn’t bothered to message or see us since unless we message first or go see her. Am I wrong in not wanting her there now?
So I was having a convo with my friend who then told me a funny story her mum told her
Basically to cut a long story short
A woman had her husband as birth partner while giving birth she pooped
She then basically said that's why men shouldn't be allowed to birth partners like the olden days because they shouldn't have to see such things even called it "indecent exposure"
Sooo my question is how many would not want there baby dad present around incase of such 😳
Logan hospital delivery room ??
Hi lady's just wondering I'm a ftm and am being booked to Logan hospital for bub how many people do they let in with you ??? I want my partner n mum n best friend plus his mum who is also my best friend I was there with the birth of her last bub and she's had 9 so would feel comfy with her there to help me through it all n I need my mum lol
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Ask your midwife hun. Every hospital is different with their policies. When i have birth to cjay I had 6 people at the hospital (curtis, my dad, his partner, curtis's mum, my mama and my grandad) but was only allowed my partner and dad in the room while I was giving birth (which I was thankful for, I would of ended up killing one of them if they got in my way😂😂). But I've heard of people being allowed loads in the room xx