No you're not in the wrong. It's your decision. You're at your most vulnerable and of course you're going to want people there who support you and who you can trust.

Ah 😑 I wouldnt bother then hun tbh im close with my fellas sister but i wouldn't wont her seeing my bits lol. 😂

@vic22, she doesn’t work and that’s the only time we speak is if we message her first it’s like she’s thrown it in my face

I see my sister in law every few months if that due to her job. And we only hear from her really if we message first but she does try. But its totally your choice x

No you're not in the wrong. It's your decision. You're at your most vulnerable and of course you're going to want people there who support you and who you can trust.

@fififmrbtteg, definitely xx

Yes Hun I would definitely reconsider , this is an amazing and special time for you and your partner you need people to there who truly do support you xx

@fififmrbtteg, yeah especially when she knows everything we are going through and not even bothered to message me xx

@courtniek98x, I can’t believe anyone would take that privilege so lightly and kinda brush it off , I mean not asking her to be with you 100% but at least regular contact would of been nice xxx

@fififmrbtteg, I am Hun it’s like she’s thrown it back in my face xxx

It’s one of the most precious things in life to witness , if you’ve had hardly no contact since asking her id be changing my mind about her to be honest xxx

@ezchaz, yeah I know but if he panics I’m gonna panic that was the whole reason for asking her and now she just doesn’t bother so I’m gonna cut all contact xxx

@nicolemariehooperxo, you know girl!!!xxx

Zoflora out in force today!! 😀 @courtniek98x xxx

@nicolemariehooperxo, haha I’m trying to keep busy so I don’t fall asleep 🤣xxx

@courtniek98x you can do mine if you want? 😀😀😀 don't do to much as you didn't sleep well xxx

@courtniek98x no I don't blame you! I would do the same it's not fair xxx

@nicolemariehooperxo, I’m literally gutting the house haha xxx

@ezchaz, I just feel so annoyed at her! I asked her to be there because I know if anything (god forbid!) went wrong my partner wouldn’t be able to stay calm ect but now I’m regretting asking her because she just doesn’t bother xxx

@courtniek98x the best kind of cleaning 😂 xxx

@nicolemariehooperxo, I’ll be fine babe I’m just so annoyed at her! He’s taken harper out so I’m cleaning the house haha xxx

@abbyrose, if there’s no effort made before she’s here they won’t be seeing her I’m not having people walk in and out of my kids lives it’s not fair xxx

@courtniek98x That's the only way you can see if she cares babe, hope you're okay ❤ no sleep doesn't help either, I hope your oh is being nicer! 😘 xxx

@courtniek98x yeah I deffo would to hun xxx

@nicolemariehooperxo, yeah exactly! She knows the problems we are going through and doesn’t even bother to ask if we are okay. Fair enough we all have our own lives but when she doesn’t work and her daughter is at school is it so hard to walk 10mins up the road and have a cuppa?🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m just gonna stop all contact and see what happens xxx

@abbyrose, I’m gonna stop all contact and see what happens 🤷🏼‍♀️xxx

@courtniek98x why should you have to message all the time? Works both ways, you make the effort and she doesn't... and to be honest if she started making the effort once babies here I'd be like nah... 👋👋 you didn't bother before why would you now? Families annoy me sometimes! Maybe you're more annoyed with the situation because of what you and baby have/still/are going through with the strep b...so you've been under alot of stress 😩 which is when you need them the most!!! XXX

@courtniek98x well you just don't make the effort. You shouldn't have to anyway it should be her! Just don't message her about seeing the baby or nothing let her come to you about it first xxx

@nicolemariehooperxo, it’s just annoyed me really bad because she doesn’t bother even giving me a message to ask if we are okay or anything and she’ll expect to watch the baby being born because I’ve asked her to be my birthing partner but she hasn’t bothered with us for weeks it’s not gonna happen xxx

@abbyrose, exactly! She’s gonna want to see the baby when it’s here but I won’t be going out with her for a good few days so she probably won’t bother cos she has to make an effort xxx

@courtniek98x sounds like you've decided to me 👍❤ whatever is best for you but I'd be the same! xxx

@nicolemariehooperxo, that’s exactly how I feel it’s like we are invisible now and she’s gonna expect me to ring her when I’m in labour?🙄 I’d rather it just be me and Reece xxx

@courtniek98x Yeah there's just no excuse for it is there... if it was me I wouldn't bother and just have someone else there. Can't stand people who don't bother then want to when baby comes😴xxx

@courtniek98x up to you chick but I'd have someone else as you say if she doesn't bother now will she when babs here? I wouldn't give the privilege of being there 🙈 (I'm not a bitch, honest) 😂 xxx

@abbyrose, it’s really annoyed me she only lives down the road and it’s not hard to give me a message to see how we are doing but she hasn’t bothered since I asked her xxx

@nicolemariehooperxo, she was excited when I asked her but unless we go see her or message her first she doesn’t bother what so ever and she only lives down the road I just think if she’s not bothering now why would she when the baby’s here?🙄xxx

Not wrong at all.... if someone never bothered with me I wouldn't want them there and it's your choice as to who you have there xx

Definitely not!!! If they're not interested/excited in the first place then they don't deserve to be there! ❤ @courtniek98x