Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
My husband doesn't want a baby shower..... he said if we can't afford to buy our own stuff and have people come and buy them for us then why have a baby if we can't afford it. I know we can, we'll I can but it's my last one and I want one. I love my babies.... Every baby is a blessing :) should I try to convince my husband or let it go ????
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Mercedes Stoddard·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (34 нед.)
A few kids ago all of my family started doing their baby showers after baby was born. It's basically become tradition now. Still habe the party but everyone gets to see and enjoy baby being there as well.
Mamachey·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I bought everything online from walmart and carters in one day!! It all came super fast and when your reasonable you dont have to spend much.
Nicole ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@happymommy3 i had my shower on a saturday and my baby the next Wednesday so i no where u coming from. Thats y i say do it right b4 u go in. Shower saturday make sure everything set up Sunday and baby Monday. Itll all work out though
Nae·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@fancydadon I like that idea I will talk to my mother about that since she was the one throwing it
gone1234·
В ожидании первенца
Don’t feel bad I waited to have a baby shower till I was 37 weeks, deciding if I want one or not due to moving situations.. I still don’t have everything but I’m getting it together.. no gone lie it was stressful ! But yes try an welcoming party after your little girls party or maybe do something in nov. close to thanksgiving with family .
Nae·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@n_favors We have to get everything he needs now. But some of the ppl still getting stuff for him since I had to canceled the baby shower.
Nae·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@itty_bitty I'm stressed cause they just sprung the induction on me today. She said we will induce you on October 22nd and I'm like what. So me and my fiance was like okay we need this we have to get this done smh. My youngest turned 2 today so I had to tell my mother the date cause she keeping her while I'm in the hospital. I don't think having the baby shower and her party together is a good idea. She having her party at the bowling alley so that will be to loud on his ears I think plus she got a different daddy. My fiance is the father of my youngest and this baby so I would be irritated cause some of her daddy family I don't really care for.
Nicole ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
U cant have it the wk b4? On the 20th?
Nae·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@itty_bitty Oh ok that do sound like a plan. Only thing is he will be born then I have to turn right around and have my oldest birthday party. Her birthday is November 3rd.
Nae·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@itty_bitty I never heard of that what is it and what do they do at the party?