OPINIONS???: It has been a SUPER hard and challenging year for my marriage. We've been through every scenario you can imagine. We've been together 10 years and our 4th wedding anniversary is in 3 days. Today is my husbands birthday too. He has to work from today until Friday so we wont get to celebrate until Friday night. Since it's been such a hard year that has almost caused us to separate, i thought since it's not a good time for an actual vow renewal, I could maybe plan a night and write some new ones of my own just private ones between him and I. Couples truly don't know what they're getting themselves into (good and bad) when they first get married and are all still in that honeymoon phase. Things CHANGE, sometimes throughout the years and I believe sometimes that those vows you made then, well, they may need tweaking. Of course the same remains..in sickness and health, better or worse, till death. But what about other stuff your partner needs that you didn't realize or didn't show up until years later? Anyway, I was thinking of doing a romantic private vow renewal to him. Kind of in a proposal type way. Ive already got them wrote. I didn't want to just hand him yet another letter that I do every year, instead I'm going to read it to him. I know we're going to dinner should I do it there or do it at home snuggled in bed? Find some place else to go? There's not many places around here for that sort of thing though so that may be tough. Hmm... opinions on the whole thing?
Not in public place with people around. Somewhere private. I agree with a walk
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:

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Do you guys like to hike? Maybe a romantic picnic to read them at sunset or sunrise?