So this has nothing to do with my pregnancy but it's a thought I've been having lately: when I first met my husband I…

@snow_bunny_diva95, we got into it about him watching porn before we got married and I told him how I felt like maybe I didn't please him enough and wasn't good enough... he told me that it wasn't that. He was afraid that he wasn't pleasing me the way I needed and wanted to try new things 😂 so I told him don't worry about that and I started taking over.... told him he pleases me the way I need him to and watching other people go at it isn't the way to learn... talk it out and state your insecurities

@mitiacarolina3 exactly

@snow_bunny_diva95, ohhh nahhhhh lol that's not happening....I would feel like maybe I'm not enough to please him and he wants to see if someone else would be better than me

@mitiacarolina3 my man wants to have one He brought it up and I told him go fuck your self

@snow_bunny_diva95, me neither and the only good thing is he's not interested... I bought it up one day and he just shrugged and said he would watch but he doesn't like to share so he'd be more upset with someone touching me 😂

@mitiacarolina3 my whole thing is I don't want my man getting off by another woman

@snow_bunny_diva95, and he told me he would just watch I'm like ummmmm no im not bringing my past around you

@mitiacarolina3 I agree I probably kill the bitch om

@snow_bunny_diva95, it would be to weird... I don't want anyone else touching him

I'm bisexual and I could never imagine having a threesome w my man.

@snow_bunny_diva95, I'm selfish lol

@mitiacarolina3

What do you think about a threesome

@xsinboldly13x, idk either it's like he wants me to forget that part of myself

@mitiacarolina3, makes sense. I can see where he's coming from but if you told him from the beginning I don't know what he expects. 😕

@xsinboldly13x, he feels that as a man he should be the only one pleasing his woman

😕 I guess that would make me feel good but only if I didn't like women

@xsinboldly13x, mine was never into it

Men are always up for some girl on girl action until it's their girl... WTF?!

@torrey_, idk know but it's like the more I try to ignore it the worst the feeling gets

@mitiacarolina3, so since he doesn't share what are you going to do?

@mitiacarolina3, I can't believe he even let you have someone to text!

@torrey_, I tell him I want a friend to text and talk too and half the time he ignores it like I never said it... for the first two years of our marriage I kept a text buddy and he just brushed it off...I think he doesn't want me meeting up with anyone in person

@torrey_, and it's bad because I can't lie but at the same time no one can make you feel as beautiful as another woman can

@ilovemychildren, it's like he understands but at the same time he don't want me to belong to anyone else and it still shocks him whenever I talk about another female... he was curious about my past but doesn't want details

@mitiacarolina3, 😭

Same with me

@torrey_, he told me that he doesn't share

I'm the same way. But over time I've just learned to ignore those feelings. In my last marriage I tried getting my ex husband to let me date girls while we were together and that only brought more issues into our relationship. I think its normal for bisexuals to miss the intimacy of the other sex every now and then.

@mitiacarolina3, see how he feels about it. I know my SO was like I absolutely could not dib and dab back and forth ☹️

(When I came to him to see how he would feel about it if I did it once)

@torrey_, and Im like I don't know what to do because I ended up telling him that I use to have "texting" buddies but all he did was laugh

Haha girl I'm not married but I'm in a relationship and I miss it too