Am I the only one with a man that doesn’t care to get married? When I first met him he said he wanted to and even while I was pregnant he said he wanted to...now that we have a baby he doesn’t want to anymore to protect me and not let the “state” get in between us...like wtf does that even mean lol I just feel hurt and feel jealous of seeing other women say my “husband” while I sit here not knowing what to refer to him as? We argue about it and I try and tell him the benefits of it...he told me to send him something that explains the benefits so he can understand why it’s a good thing, so I did research and sent him a long list of the pros of marriage..a couple days after I sent it he said he read it.. a week later I haven’t heard a response or anything about it. I’m just 😢
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@kellyjc, yes we have a house together, just me him and the baby and our doggies. Thanks I am trying I just hate that he doesn’t care to at least have a talk about it.. it’s hard to act like I don’t feel hurt and when he asks what’s wrong I try and tell him what is on my mind then he just doesn’t want to talk about anything so I just kinda feel alone. Maybe it’s just part of postpartum idk ☹️
He is 32 and I am 27..it’s not like we’re too young for it or anything so I just don’t get why he decided that out of nowhere
@mommyteeni
that sucks
maybe it's the stress of the new baby?
are u living together?
just maybe give him some time perhaps he feels pressured
@kellyjc, for about 3 years now and neither of us have ever been married before, when we met each other we both were kinda like well were perfect for each other so we are going to be together n have a family n get married... now that the family part has happened he now all of a sudden changed his mind on marriage... I don’t understand it, n thank you ❤️ it just makes me sad ... he keeps saying we can just be together n not get married...but like why??? Why not give me those future benefits n why change it all of a sudden after I have his child...
how long have u been together and have either of u been married b4??
i'm sorry he won't talk to you about his thoughts and feelings
I hate to rant...but I feel so ignored... and I don’t really have friends to talk to about that sort of stuff ☹️
I also ask him what he thinks of it and he says can we not talk about it right now...which I understand he doesn’t want to do that after he gets home from work... but like when the hell is a good time then??? Am I just being impatient? Idk I feel said that he has just changed his mind all of a sudden it kind of hurts
i even shaved (impossible task now) & put on cute underwear. we only have a few more days to get freaky before we can’t anymore for a while & he doesn’t even care ughhhh
My son just handed me this…. As an adult I made the decision not to get it and told him why I choose not to. Asked him if he knew anything about COVID or the vaccine and he said no all he knows it’s that it’s out there. At the end I asked him if he wants the vaccine I will sign the form if not we ignore it. He said no thank you 😊.
Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀️
Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
idk how ur feeling pp wise but I struggled for 2 years without realizing that's what it was. I finally went to the dr in like March and it's been such a relief the way I was looking at things was so different from reality or how I would normally