Still haven't told DH... ...that we're expecting! ? Tonight we were at dinner with my brother and SIL and they just had a baby 4 weeks ago. She said something about babies and DH replies, with such an attitude, "uh no! Never again, we are done!"
So My coworker does not get vaccinated for anything due to religious practices and she’s worried about our job making it mandatory since they discussed it earlier this week. It’s crazy how when vaccines even started or came about we were told it would be voluntary but now it’s mandatory and people need a verification card to go certain places. We even have certain states doing lottery drawings just to make people get it. people shouldn’t fear losing their jobs or having to go against their religious beliefs when we were told it was voluntary. I think this is wrong that companies are doing this.
Sorry, baby name post I've decided I'm no longer asking for my husband's input and just making my own decision. ? We only have 2.5 weeks until he'll be here and he needs a name.
So this morning my fiancé and me went to my folks for Christmas. On our way there we had to stop at his ex fiancé house to drop off an ornament we found of hers when we were setting up our tree. I was upset because I really didn't want to see her especially on our first Christmas being engaged and our daughters first Christmas because she has been mean about me in the past. Now I come to find out that she has been asking him about our daughter and stuff like that. Do I have a right to be upset or no??
Need help! Lol, so my SO and I cannot find a girl name that were both crazy about. I like more unique names but he likes common names. He said he wants a name thats common but not too common. So its been difficult finding a name for her. The only names that we can somewhat agree on are Savannah, Brooklyn, and Mariah. We need other options, lol. I have 3 months until shes here and its driving me crazy that I dont know her name yet...
Juliana Ochoa·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Sounds like a bunch of bull. Sorry momma. It’s their loss. Enjoy your baby’s bday with the people who genuinely want to be there. Hugs!!
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (6 лет)
You can be angry but I would not get so worked up on it. It is their loss of time with their grandchild. It is best when they actually make and or imply some effort. Who wants to be forced to be grandparents? The ones that are not good ones.
Alyson Wolfe·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Alyson Wolfe·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Oh my gosh I am so sorry I didn’t mean to post that I was helping the kiddos and feeding the puppy sorry momma
Sam Yohnka·
Мама дочки-младенца
@wolfe1134 I understand how that goes! haha
MassMomma16·
I think she may have went about it wrong. Should have atleast let you know they were considering not coming. Maybe she was torn and decided last minute she couldn't do it.
wafflespancakes·
I can see being disappointed, but I wouldn't make a thing of it. Maybe her pain is flaring up and she was just debating if she could handle the drive or not.
sweetsap·
Overreacting? No, you have a right and your reasons for feeling the way you do. A right to be angry? You have the right, but someone on the outside looking in might think you're taking it very personal. They also live 9 hours away, that's a pretty long trip, especially if they were at your place a few days ago and drove 9 hours home, might be rough to make another 9 hour drive. They aren't young, spring chickens anymore, lol
sweetsap·
If they were at your place a few days ago, why didn't they just stay for the party instead of driving 9 hours home to drive 9 hours back to you guys? I'm confused
Sam Yohnka·
Мама дочки-младенца
No my husband was at their house. In Arkansas we live in Illinois. He was there and asked them Thursday night if they wanted to ride up with him and he'd bring them home they said no.
Mimi·
I wouldn’t get upset she may really be suffering. I’ve been suffering from chronic pain for almost a year now and am still trying to be diagnosed and none of my family knows besides my so. I have good days and bad days the good days I feel totally normal bad days i will lock myself in a room and cry because the pain is so bad and I feel like an 80 year old woman and I’m not even 30. If they were making plans for other things while they were there I’m sure they had every intention of coming and she probably just really isn’t feeling up to it.
sweetsap·
Ok
Sam Yohnka·
Мама дочки-младенца
Well my husband has been staying there for a job. He never knew anything was wrong and she hasn't told her husband either. I'll be honest that I would probably be upset either way but with waiting at the last minute I think is what is upsetting me more. Because it's not the first time she has done something like this.
Mimi·
@samilou91, I totally get that but It would be a lie if i said I hadn’t cancelled last minute thinking I’d be ok. However I don’t know her or how she normally acts but myself I don’t tell anyone even my husband it’s really hard because i really want
To be able to push thru it. Don’t let it ruin your daughters bday for you, her parents will be there and that’s what really matters!
Sam Yohnka·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mimixtmn your right. I won't let it ruin her day.