Maternity leave
Sorry ladies if this has already been asked but when are you guys going on maternity leave? I was thinking about working all the way up until my due date but with my work schedule, I may take it earlier
@four you guys are really lucky. I would enjoy all if that time with my baby!!
@jrdye they will try you!!! But I'm glad you pulled out the manual on her bc that's not fair for them to try and pull that stunt. I went to the dr on Friday and she told me I can get a note anytime so I'll be taking that maternity leave about two weeks earlier ?
I completely understand Boss issues, mine is pulling all kinds of shenanigans... Even went so far as to try and enforce me to exhaust all my Vacation, Sick, and PTO during my leave, when I clearly have access to the employee handbook, so her attempts were futile. I'm due 3/25, my last day will be 3/21, I'm taking 10 wks. ThankGod for FMLA
@sherry if you don't mind me asking, what state or country do you live in?
Yes I'm really lucky, my company pay 6 months full pay and then I get government statutory pay for 6 months which isn't much but I've been saving every month since finding out I was pregnant to supplement it! :) it means my family will have to watch what we spend for a year but we felt it was worth it :) x
@sherry a full year?? That's awesome!!!! I would love that!
Lucky you UKmummy!!! I wish I could go out now. I'm so ready. My job is tripping and I feel Luke they are forcing me to quit. It's not fair but I honestly am ready to. If I didn't need my insurance paid for....
@tanisha that sounds like a good idea. I may think about that one
Lucky you @lee. I'm moving to Canada for a while so I can get your benefits lol
@lind that's kinda how my job is. I have to take all if my sick and vacay time.....but what happens when and if my baby gets sick :/ I can't take off even if I could. I would have to be sick and use a "personal day" which I only get one of
I'm due Feb 26 - and planning on working until labor begins! I'm taking 12 weeks off, but only 5 are paid through short term disability. I am required to use up my all of my vacation/sick time too, which is 4 weeks. So I'll have 9 weeks paid, 3 weeks unpaid. Not too bad - but working the rest of the year with NO additional time off & a baby will be brutal! ?
My due date is Feb 25th. My last day at work was Jan 31st. With my company the automatically take my sick time then everything else kicks in. I'm out due to preterm labor and they still give me 6 wks after but last time with my daughter they gave me 12. Hoping for the same. Fingers crossed.
@kerry can you claim short term disability with your job?? That way you'll at least get something
No prob Valerie!! @lovemy3sons oh ok. I was just wondering bc it didn't seem right. It seems like my boss is doing some shady stuff now that I'm pregnant. She lied and said she didn't have anywhere to put me when there are ppl leaving plus she won't allow me to go to a consistent schedule once I return from maternity leave. Ugh! I can't wait to take a break from there. But I hope you get the rest you need
@mystarbaby yeah it sucks here. It would be nice to get alot more time off for my baby. I should move to another country to have my baby so I can get that sweet deal haha
@lovemy3sons is that legal?? I thought that YOU chose when you wanted to take your leave...
@valerie hope this will allow you to get more rest and help with your sciatica
Sounds like you ladies have it all figured out. Hoping everyone have a safe delivery.....we're on the home stretch now!! ☺☺☺
I'm due April 25, my last day was just yesterday (Feb 7). My job is very physical and I'm not having the easiest pregnancy. I haven't worked a full week since becoming pregnant due to either sickness, or inability to perform at work, or chemicals they were using being unsafe for baby. So it seems early to start leave but if I could go back in time I would have quit when I found out I was pregnant. My sciatica probably wouldn't be as bad and I would have had a much less stressful past 7 months.
Jenna, I only work the standard 8 hours but I also go to school at nighttime. Plus my schedule is really crazy.....it changes every two days between late night, middle of the night and dayside. I also feel myself slowing down with less than ten weeks to go....I'm seriously considering going out earlier than the 14th tho. What's your schedule? Is it consistent or all over the place?
Tosoff, my due date is April 15th and I plan to work until the 14th.....and if the baby don't come on time then I'll prob continue working until he/she does. Now that's crazy
Yeah I have to use my sick and vacation time which SUCKS!!! What will happen if my baby gets sick? Them what am I going to do?? I just asked today if I could get a weekend off bc I really need to sleep. I forgot we're in one of those crucial months where we can't take off so I might not get it until march ?
I'm due April 24th, and I'm trying to make it to April 15th. My bday is March 31st so I may be done around that time lol. That last two weeks may just not happen! But I'm planning on taking 10 weeks off and using short term disability. So I will probably go back to work after the 4th of July sometime
You ladies are lucky!! I have work and school to worry about. I go to my doc next Friday and I will ask her when I should go on leave tho. Especially since I'm super duper tired and I know my body needs rest
Wow - sorry ppl don't get paid maternity that would be hard :( as if buying stuff for little one isn't a strain enough. Yes get paid for the 10 weeks so am very blessed in that sense. Just packed my hosp bag this evening, getting more real now :) just paranoid about water breaking at work that would suck!!!!
Oh wow. I just have school and work (both full time) and I thought I had it bad!! But you are super mom! Keep up the good work but don't tire yourself.
The only reason I'm going back is so ill have my hospital bills paid for. I don't want any confusion or any type of foolishness. I really hope I can get my schedule changed....although my boss is tripping and won't change it ?
@simmy are you getting paid for the whole ten weeks?? I'm going to be out for eight weeks and I have to use all of my vacay and sick time for the year ?
I wish I could get more rest time but I don't think it's possible. I'm getting super tired and worn out and don't know if working until the last days will be best for my body.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I don't mind at all, I actually live in the UK and work for a big pharma company, they have really good maternity benefits x