advice please
My so and I have been together for 2 years now and we are expecting our first child together. I'm 37 weeks and I just have no feelings towards him. We don't spend as much time together anymore. I don't even care to text or call him anymore. I'm really just going through the motions. And feel like im stuck and don't know what to do.
Is it just that you don't feel the rush or desire and lust towards him?
Or are there some negative emotions there?
The chemicals of "love" do wear off over time. It's science. Our brains don't send the same signals as when we first started dating and just want to be naked. All. The. Time.
That's natural.
But if you have negative feelings. Like you feel neglected, lonely or like he doesn't show that he is committed, then you might have to talk it out. When this happens during pregnancy, it's difficult. You have to try to sort out what portion is hormones and what issues need to be addressed.
done having kids For those of you who are done having kids, did you just like know or what? We have two kids. Ds is going to be 4 on the 30th and I just had dd Feb 6th. My fiance says he doesn't want anymore. As of now, I don't feel like I want anymore either but I honestly don't know. I've always wanted three kids. We are still young (I'm 21, and he's 22) I'm no where near even thinking about having another at the moment. I really wanna get settled in life with good income and a nice home before having anymore if we do. So really, my question is, how do you know you're just done having kids?
I'm pretty sure I don't have much bloating anymore and my bump feels so big. 😆
I have a feeling I might not be pregnant anymore, I still have morning/day sickness but other than that I don't feel like I am anymore/: is that bad to say? I'm scared to know
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because when other mom's bash other mom's it makes us feel like we aren't doing a good job at least that's how I feel when I get bashed.
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Consider counseling.
It takes work to stay in love and committed.
Many relationships go through hard times but love can be rekindled.
It sounds funny but dedicate yourself to serving him, finding ways to lighten his load and brighten his day. You would be surprised how that can rekindle a relationship.
If your having a child together your child deserves you to try and make it work.
I have been married 11 years. My husband is still me best friend and not because we are so madly in love like movies show but because we each work at serving and caring for each other.
When you each start looking at "I" am not getting what I want then things fall apart.
In the end maybe it isn't meant for you guys to work out but don't give up at the first speed bump comitt to trying.
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