lashawn
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lashawn·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)

advice please

My so and I have been together for 2 years now and we are expecting our first child together. I'm 37 weeks and I just have no feelings towards him. We don't spend as much time together anymore. I don't even care to text or call him anymore. I'm really just going through the motions. And feel like im stuck and don't know what to do.

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Consider counseling.

It takes work to stay in love and committed.

Many relationships go through hard times but love can be rekindled.

It sounds funny but dedicate yourself to serving him, finding ways to lighten his load and brighten his day. You would be surprised how that can rekindle a relationship.

If your having a child together your child deserves you to try and make it work.

I have been married 11 years. My husband is still me best friend and not because we are so madly in love like movies show but because we each work at serving and caring for each other.

When you each start looking at "I" am not getting what I want then things fall apart.

In the end maybe it isn't meant for you guys to work out but don't give up at the first speed bump comitt to trying.

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Is it just that you don't feel the rush or desire and lust towards him?

Or are there some negative emotions there?

The chemicals of "love" do wear off over time. It's science. Our brains don't send the same signals as when we first started dating and just want to be naked. All. The. Time.

That's natural.

But if you have negative feelings. Like you feel neglected, lonely or like he doesn't show that he is committed, then you might have to talk it out. When this happens during pregnancy, it's difficult. You have to try to sort out what portion is hormones and what issues need to be addressed.

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