Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Ok so my son just got his first job. He’s also type 1 diabetic. Well last night while working his sensor starts going off his blood sugar dropped to 52. They told him he could deal with it after he got his orders done, which in a way I understand that but at the same time if it drops low enough he can pass out and that won’t be good for anyone!! They wouldn’t even let him just grab some glucose tabs out of his bag. I’m so torn here because I don’t know what’s appropriate and what’s not.
So my bf went to work last night for 8:30pm (he has no set schedule) he texted me when he got there and now it's 7:40am and I haven't heard from him....his FB said he made it back to the warehouse 4hrs ago.....it only takes 2hrs max for him to get home...should I call his job?? I'm getting nervous (he doesn't have a phone , it only works on wifi)
Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but then tells me halfway through the week he can't take him Friday until Saturday due to taking up an optional shift at work, can I legally tell him he either takes him Friday at his ordered time or doesn't get him? He's constantly cancelling whole weekends or taking our son a quarter of his ordered time. He also isn't following the meets on the order. Almost every Sunday he has him I get a message that he doesn't have a car so I have to get my son, or he tells me i have to run him out there. I'm already having cut hours at work and getting no child support from him since he's been continuously in and out of work.
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Lydia Smith·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
When I was 18 I was like that just eliminated the wrong people and kept the good in go to church and prayed it’s been 17 years
Amanda·
Мама троих детей
@crai he is a very private person. But he does have a big supportive family. Also his dad works with him to help give him the support he needs at work. I did try to talk with him about getting a new job but he refuses bc he don't want to start over. He worked hard to get where he is at.
Amanda·
Мама троих детей
@lydia09876 congratulations I am very proud of you.
Ashley L.·
He will get clean if he wants to. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. I kept pushing my ex to get clean and he never did and still to this day isn’t. He just got better at hiding it. One week is a start though. My husband went to rehab when he was 18 and has been clean since. It’s been 10 years for him. You have to want to be clean and want to change.
Prayers for him and your family.
Keno Pigg ·
You're definitely are a good support system I believe in yall #HeGotThis 🤞😘😍
Mo 🙅🏻♀️·
As long as his always has a good support system around him he can do it. Addiction is hard, it consumes a person. Especially if their is enablers all around him. But the fact that he is trying is enough, 48 hours sober is awesome, let alone a week. Just tell him, one more week, one more week. Before you know it, it will be a month sober and than year, and then 5 years.
@lydia09876,by the way you go girl💪🏼 . Praying hard for him, and your family ❤️❤️
K·
Congrats for you and your husband!!! A week is huge. The first steps I’m sure are the hardest. I’m hoping he comes out on top and victorious
Amanda·
Мама троих детей
@awmak. I have never tried pushing him. He is doing this all on his own. But thanks for the advice.
Amanda·
Мама троих детей
@kbbaybee16 thank you very much!
Ashley L.·
@mother.of.angels, I didn’t mean you in particular . I was just saying I’ve been there and I know if you try to force someone it’s a waste of time
Amanda·
Мама троих детей
@crai so far his will power has been very strong bc he just flat out said he is done with it and he don't want it anymore. He got tired of spending all of his hard earned money and having nothing to show for it.
Amanda·
Мама троих детей
He has been planning dates for us every weekend so that he has something to look foward to. And so that he can keep busy. We went to a drive in movie, we went to get Ice cream, we hiked around a local lake, and this weekend were going to the mountains or the beach.
Amanda·
Мама троих детей
@awmak. Most definitely. Your right.
Ashley L.·
That sounds great. It does sound like he’s really trying and is ready to change . I wish the best for him.
Amanda·
Мама троих детей
@awmak. Thanks so much. I'm hoping and praying.
Heather·
As a former addict, I know the struggle. It's easier when u eliminate the bad people around u and surround yourself with only good. I started going to church & spent as much time with my church family as possible. If I ever had a temptation I'd pray and start praising God for his deliverance in my life. It helped.
Amanda·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@mother.of.angels has ur husband tried cannabis oil? that is suppose 2 help with all kinds of things. opioid addiction is 1 of them
Amanda·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@mother.of.angels look at this
Martina·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
that's so awesome I'm happy for you. My fiance is a gambling addict. Addiction is a very horrible illness.