So my bf went to work last night for 8:30pm (he has no set schedule) he texted me when he got there and now it's 7:40am…

@disa_nicole, oh he paid his portion lol

He has a phone just needs to turn it on. Again his priority....I just need to make sure it's on next month and Feb....@foreveryoung247

Ohh I see damn yeah I was saying he should buy one but I guess that's not a priority of his @disa_nicole

@foreveryoung247, ☝🏽️☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽

He will have a phone in Jan and Feb just for the sake of me going into labor I don't care if he has a phone for any other reason.....I'm not the girl to b paying for a phone and I can't get in contact with u but everyone under the sun can. I was brought up that way by my parents (they always said I pay this bill and I can't get in contact with u) it makes sense to me now...I dont feel the need to take care of a bill for a man who has a job....his priorities are smoking and having the shit he wants...im just waiting for our son to get her to see what he does with his money honestly. I have things under control but it's gonna b hard for me to do it all alone but as a mother I made the decision to keep my son if he stuck around or not. When I got pregnant he didn't have a job and he just started working 2 months ago and hasn't bought n e thing for his son....doesn't pay rent or n e thing....so what he does with his little bit of money he feels is his soo if he has no phone come time for this baby I will b going into labor whether he is there or not soo he needs to reorganize his priorities @do reveryoung247

I'm not paying for his phone bill.....he is a grown man and he needs to maintain his own in my eyes he buys other bs stuff soo if he wanted to turn his phone on then he would but he doesn't make much and is on child support soo it's a battle only he can pick up. I just had to convert part time at my job Bc of childcare issues we will run into soo I don't have time to b dishing out extra money for his luxury....he better have it turned on in February though is all I am saying. Bc I will go into labor without him here or not. The baby doesn't care about no phone 😩 @simplyfirstbaby

I'm not paying for his phone bill.....he is a grown man and he needs to maintain his own in my eyes he buys other bs stuff soo if he wanted to turn his phone on then he would but he doesn't make much and is on child support soo it's a battle only he can pick up. I just had to convert part time at my job Bc of childcare issues we will run into soo I don't have time to b dishing out extra money for his luxury....he better have it turned on in February though is all I am saying. Bc I will go into labor without him here or not. The baby doesn't care about no phone 😩 @simplyfirstbaby

Right @disa_nicole when I was dating my husband he tried that wifi shit with me... Needless to say I got him on my phone plan quick and in a hurry no times for games in this

It makes sense to me he probably was just doing extra work bc it's a large event. I know it's hard not to think the worse but you should make him get a cheap flip phone for 20 bucks so you don't have to worry as much @disa_nicole

Oh^ wtf. I'd tell him from now on, if plans change, keep me updated. I had to do that with DF because my anxiety gets way too bad

Hmmmm, did he say he was working?

I don't even wanna talk I'm still in that anxious mood....my hearts still racing....I don't sleep well when he isn't here it's like the baby knows he's not here my heartburn acts up more Bc I'm not comfortable it's a mix of things and it's only been like this since i have been pregnant and he started working...I don't get into a deep sleep Bc I know he isn't home.....I think I'm weird....he said they had to clean couches Bc they were used at the Victoria secret event and they were going out again today so they had to clean them..... Adds up to why he was back at the warehouse but why not text me and tell me something.....but u update ur Instagram instead 😒😕 I just wanna throw that phone in the garbage most days @julissalarina

glad at least hes safe now find out what happened girl!!! lol

He just got to the door 😡😒 I don't feel right about this @julissalarina @simplyfirstbaby @vinnysmomma

The baby doesn't like my reaction when I get nervous it makes my heart race and that takes hours to go away....@julissalarina

No he's usually home by 5-6am @simplyfirstbaby and 6 is the latest even with the trains messing up. The point is he was back at the warehouse 5hrs ago which means shift is done so where is he....

yea i know what you mean! give it some time if it gets too too late then..but im sure everything is okay im the paranoid type and ive thought of the worst when my husband didnt get in contact with me when he didnt have a phone, ill think he got murdered or jumped idk im crazy i get too paranoid lolll

@disa_nicole, has he done that before? It could be overtime

It won't make him loose his job. He works all over the city I was calling the warehouse where they meet to see if he clocked out do at least I can know if he is on his way home or not.... @simplyfirstbaby

I know he was back at the warehouse 4hrs ago Bc he uses the restaurant at the corners wifi but it's going on 5hrs for him to get home that's not normal @julissalarina but I don't wanna look crazy calling his job

Don't call yet... If he's busy providing you never know what that phone call could do... Both to his reputation and to his pride... Trust me I been there don't make him lose that job mama @disa_nicole

i hate that phone only work with wifi crap it gives me anxiety lol, you should call his job and find out maybe what time he had left or if hes still there maybe

So am I lately every time he's late home or to pick me up from work I think the worst things have happened and it makes the baby very active 😢 @vinnysmomma

I'd call. But I'm the paranoid type 😳