You never realize how much of your family you don't like until you're planning a wedding. I'd rather not invite my dad's side of the family, but he'll be so hurt if I don't. They've been absent from my life since before I got pregnant and my daughter's almost 2. Nothing happened, they were invited to events and we reached out and they didn't respond. I'm sick of making the effort and getting my feelings hurt when they don't show.
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No matter what, your wedding will offend someone. You can’t please everyone and for some reason people get really butthurt over them. Plan your wedding for you and screw anyone else’s plans or ideas.
I would sit down with your Dad and chat about it all.
I made mistakes about worrying too much about other people's opinions (family) and am now stuck with photos in the wedding album of people who I have nothing to do with. .stand by what feels right by you and your future hubby, end of the day this wedding is about who loves and supports you being there for one of the most important days.
I think your dad would be more hurt if he saw how upset you were that they didn't show up to your wedding. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't invite them, but if you're really concerned about your dad's say in this, invite them -- but keep your expectations low that way when they don't rsvp, you'll know you at least did right by your dad.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So I’m not a fan of my fiancé’s family. I want you all opinion on what you would do. His family wants to throw me a baby shower. Yet they haven’t invited any of my family and friends and none of my fiancé’s friends. My fiancé and his niece haven’t spoke since May since I got into an argument with her and supposedly this baby shower is her idea. Would you go to a baby shower that no one you know or friends and family won’t be apart of? Would you just not show up? My fiancé has already voiced his ...
Who agrees ?
Are you sure this is my child and do you love me = I don't trust you I don't want this child and you don't love me
Pretty depressed right now making a list of ppl to invite to my baby shower. I dont have anyone to invite. Just family and no friends. This is gonna be embarrassing af.
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
Maybe he can pick a few favorites to invite and who cares about the rest