@verguinia, will do n of course that’s not a problem

@babymema30 true and mine also ! Let me know how your doing in the future we should message each other!

@verguinia, yea he’s my best friend but that can still work against us right now we focusing on just being great for the kids they are my main concern

@fuhgeddaboudit true I'm on the same page too right now to be honest !

@babymema30 wow that s amazing how long you been together ! You guys must know each other really well which can totally help in working things out

@verguinia, o no I been with my kids father since I was 15 I’m 30 after a certain point in the relationship I’m not about the business of training no man especially wen I started having kids all I can tell u is wat I want and expect from our relationship n if u can’t get it together u have to go this chance he’s gettIng is for our family n if he proves he not about this family he gotta go again

@babymema30 yes true and it's sad that we have to train them and shit it's like they never passed childhood as adults !!!!!

@verguinia, yea it’s a work in progress he most def knows my worth now after he was on that yr timeout n he knew that about me wen he did wat he did unfortunately guys are just guys sometimes

@fuhgeddaboudit mine is nice to me but I was thinking I did everything for the baby who isn't born I got her all the baby stuff from my tax return and I got her clothes from friends and I asked him to wash hee baby clothes for 3 weeks and keep keep saying later I washed them very heavy and I asked for a baby bath but he didn't get it so I did and it seems like I'm doing everything for her alone already!!!!

@fuhgeddaboudit that s not nice I hope he changes you shouldn't be going through that being pregnant

@babymema30 I'm happy it all turned out good and he should respect you more because you truly don't look or are a cheater God Bless you

@fuhgeddaboudit, got u me and my kids father were in that stage last yr he did some dumb shit at his job wit another female and I had to put him on a year timeout no benefits so wen I told him I was prego he pulled the o u just want me back if u are it’s probably not mine I said ok I refuse to play to a mans ego right before having her he decides he wants to be at the hospital I’m not petty and I have nothing to hide so come thru and u kno wat happen my daughter came out with his whole face looks like him more than our son I said wats up now she still not urs needless to say he signed the birth certificate and came to pick us up from the hospital wen we got discharged n a yr later we here again better space trying to make our family work it’s much better

@fuhgeddaboudit, you and your significant other

@verguinia, he has to kno that’s not ok to say or question wat if u wanted to be an ass n be like nah this baby isn’t urs n no I don’t love you then wat

@babymema30 he did tell he wasn't thinking when he asked that but I'm still upset

@verguinia, guys like to say things without thinking until u call there bluff then they wanna sit there n look stupid

@babymema30 true

@fuhgeddaboudit, yea my kids father jokes like this all the time about my daughter cause we were in a bad space wen I found out I was prego with her🤦🏽‍♀️ so I told him hey I don’t mind waddling onto a Maury stage shit I’ll even call some family members to come and sit n the audience for some extra drama n wen Maury says those infamous words I’m taking u to court for child support not funny now huh

@fuhgeddaboudit I think I need a lot of time I can't keep being ok with this question this is mental abuse let him carry a child and I ask him that since I waited 8 years to have another child and chose him so he can talk to me like that I don't think so

@fuhgeddaboudit he keeps saying sorry but I can't get over it that question he asked is just making me cry all day and he is just saying sorry and that he made a mistake yet he been asking me that a lot before

I told him If he feel like he wants to not have any responsibility for my children he doesn't have to i will always be there for them and he can choose to do what he wants he is a free man I told him I will never make my children feel like they are not mine no matter what@fuhgeddaboudit

@fuhgeddaboudit very but that's not my fault

@verguinia @littleonemorning i do agree with littleonemorning though, maybe he is scared, a talk wouldnt kill you guys ask him how he really feels, he could certainly be scared/nervous and talking out of his butthole with fear of a million different things. I really hope you guys work it out and hes not just being a dick to be one! Dont stress too much momma♡

@verguinia, totally get it! I would grill him about why he would even think that.

@fuhgeddaboudit true he had a dream and in that dream I told him the baby was not his then he got up and started all this in real life I told him I don't control your dreams

@kendrab yes I been avoiding him and crying for 2 days now I can't seem to get it out of my head that he would even think that knowing I would never think that way of him towards me

Def no trust there! Id be so poed if my hubs said he didnt think the baby was his 😒 ofcourse id welcome a test hes the only one i had sex with in 3 or 4 years lmao but i dont think id get over the part that he didnt trust me.. if a relationship doesnt have trust what exactly does it have 😔

@fuhgeddaboudit it's true depends on how you ask it if it's in a joking way it does sound harmless but in a serious way it makes everything rude sounding

@littleonemorning your right I just don't understand men sometimes I'm the one going through all the changes and then this question truly messed up my mood !!!!!

I agree. I think when someone questions where or not a child is theirs means that they don’t trust you, but sometimes spouses get nervous with babies because they either aren’t ready to be a parent or aren’t ready share attention