Alright .... I’m posting this in hopes to see if I’m not the only one... I may be, today I hit an all time low. I thought about leaving my family, it’s all too much and I feel way too alone... but yet I’m married. I don’t ask for help because I’m constantly hearing “I never had this help with y’all” from my mom. My mother in law stays with us but I find it had to ask for help with her also because she works all day and comes home tired. But her and my father in law always throws out little hits towards me and my husband expects me to just ignore it. Things like “make sure you’re giving my baby her medicine” (my daughter is sick) “Danielle where’s dinner” or whenever I do cook, “let’s go with the food” i really feel like I’m in over my head. I’m not cut out to have a family and I feel that my husband isn’t helping as much as I want him to, but I don’t ask for help because last time I did he laughed and said no because he was too tired.... last night I broke down, and honestly thought what am I doing here. Maybe she’s better off without me. And all day today I thought the same thing because Adrienne just cried all day.... but with anyone else she doesn’t give trouble, as a mom I know my daughter needs me but I feel like everyone else around me can do a better job... so why don’t they 😓😒😢😢😪😪🤧
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@ymoreno16, not leaving her alone just with everyone else who thinks they can do better. My husband always has a suggestion so I’ll suggest he find something to do with her I’m tired of doing this by myself when I have a husband. He’s like a roommate that sleeps in my bed. Most of the time I’m pretty happy around her and she’s still in a cranky mood. I told my husband I need help and he said get a babysitter or something but when I ask him if we can hire one he said no so if what to do. They don’t believe in childcare.
@eryka616, thank you... can’t really do therapy, I don’t have anyone to watch her while I go. My husband says that he tells me to go out all the time but he doesn’t. And honestly I feel like if I have to ask for him to watch her then that’s a problem. He never volunteers really. Or if I go to target by myself he’ll call me like where are you. Only out time I have is while I’m in class and either my mom my mother in law watches her. I’m so beyond fed up I’ve been crying almost all night
She feeds off your energy if you're sad she will be sad her mood depends on how you feeling momma ask for the help you need never never leave your child alone nobody will have her back like you ever will its hard but trust me there's a lot of help out there. Be strong
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@eryka616, 😔😔 thank you I really appreciate it... I think I’ll be ok. Idk.. I think I will be. I should be