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Marissa🥀
Marissa🥀
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I just need to vent for a second. And I can't vent to Facebook. What in my dads mind clicked and thought it was okay to…

I just need to vent for a second. And I can't vent to Facebook. What in my dads mind clicked and thought it was okay to message me about doing matching costumes with my son and my little sister and brother. Nothing against them. I love my siblings to death. But this man hasn't talk to me in months. The same man that told me if I ever need anything don't hesitate to ask. He'd help in any way possible. But when I was about to be homeless with my 1 year old, he was no where to be heard from or found. NOW YOU WANNA REACH OUT ABOUT HALLOWEEN FUCKING COSTUMES. You did not care about your grandson or your daughter almost living on the streets but you think you can just swoop in for a holiday. For what pictures to validate yourself as a "good father and grandfather" fuck outta here with that bs.

It pisses me off so much because there's people like my dad who had every opportunity under the sun to be involved in my life and chose other things including women and drugs over me. And then there's people like the guy I was seeing when I was pregnant. Who I sat outside his baby mamas house for two fucking hours waiting for her to get home so we could spend the day with the baby to only find out she was in another state for the weekend with him. She had us waiting for TWO WHOLE HOURS saying "well be home soon" and then just stopped answering. And told him afterwards she didn't want me around her son. Yet before that she was "so excited" to meet me. Like why?? My life has been one whole shit show since I last seen my dad. Not a call. Not a text. Nothing asking if we were okay at least. I'm about to move my son into a shelter 4 hours away from where he's used to, so Halloween is unfortunately the last thing on my mind. And I'm not about to take him around somebody that just wants to see him so he could post pictures online.

Rant over. 🙄

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beautynbabies

🌹Gigi 🌹Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (20 нед.)

Exactly !

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mamadukes

Marissa🥀Мама сына (1 год)

@beautynbabies, that means a lot. I hate having to put my son through this but I know one day it'll just be an obstacle we went through to make sure he had a better life. Just sucks you want to give the world to your kids but the world is stubborn sometimes.

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beautynbabies

🌹Gigi 🌹Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (20 нед.)

I know from experience this will just make you stronger as a mother and as a woman !

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beautynbabies

🌹Gigi 🌹Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (20 нед.)

I understand I would feel the same way and I am truly sorry you & your son have been and still is going through this I pray that things get better for you soon !

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

3RD UPDATE: What would you do?

3RD UPDATE: What would you do? Ok, so we have these new neighbors they have been there renting the house 2 doors down for about 3 months or so. They have a 2 year old boy, he just turned two. They have asked me to babysit him on multiple occasions, just so happens I've been busy each time. In my mind, they don't know me or anything about me. Barely know my name and they want me to watch their kid because they see I have kids and stay home. Apparently they haven't had any luck with the babysitters they have had. Well his sister just moved in and she had the little boy all morning. I get a text at 11 from the mom asking if I can come get the boy because the sister needs to leave to work on her car?.... I told her I would but was on my way to the store and would be back at 12 and would get him then. So I get back and the sister brings him over. He doesn't know me at all, but he is a very good little boy. I had no problems with him the whole time. So here is my question, I watched him from 12 to 530, the mom texted at 2 and asked how much I told her 10-15 just because I'm nice. If it was me in that situation on such short notice and someone saving my ass to watch my kid I would give them 15-20 if they said 10-15. So the dad picked him up and said the mom would pay when she got home. I just texted and asked her because she's been home since 6 (now it's 930) if she was bring over the money, I was super nice about it. She said her husband had to go to the bank, so he went and came back and then she texted me that it was on the front porch. They gave me $8. Like really? I just find this super weird. Would you be kinda thrown back by this also? I definitely learned my lesson and won't be "helping out" anymore. I just thought this was nuts.