I really need some advice/ a place to vent. I'm sorry for the length of this, but here it goes.
So, during our relationship, I caught my bf talking to other girls. Like the whole time. And everytime he got caught, he would apologize and it would be good for a week or two. This happened for two years. And I kept forgiving and trying to trust him. Well, there was/is this one girl that he WOULDNT stop talking to a couple months back. He cheated on me with this girl. He says only twice. But I think more. Anyways, he would tell her that he wasn't going to be talking to her anymore and disrespecting me with her. Like, he humiliated, embarrassed, made fun of me with her, and disrespected me with her continually. Anyways, after he would tell her this, he would block her on everything. But then I would find out that he was still talking to her because he unblocked her number. Eventually he blocked her number and kept it that way. We broke up about a week and a half ago because I found out that he unblocked her of instagram and we had a huge fight and he ended it. But, it was on good terms. We were trying to keep things good between us for the sake of our son. But I told him, for us to be on good terms that she needed to be out of the picture. So he blocked her again. Well, he unblocked this girl yesterday. And I just cannot be a part of his life like that if she is in the picture. He betrayed me with this girl. And I thought he had enough respect for me to do this. Anyways, I guess what I'm asking is am I wrong for asking this of him? I'd never keep him away from his son because he is a great father if nothing else. But I just have to distance myself from him if she is in his life. Am I wrong? Please, I just need some unbiased opinions and advice
@janeth25, I just wanted to at least be able to have a good relationship outside of actually being in one with him so that our son didn't have to suffer. It hurts that I can't even get that from him
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If you told your S/O to block another woman (because she wasn't getting the hint that he was taken) and then found out he unblocked her and is talking to her again, how would you feel?
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do
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@janeth25, like, he says that's what he wants but his actions are showing me otherwise