@snp6687 Right im just going to have to accept things for what they are and hope and pray that one day they can come to conclusions on things .

If that's the type of people they want to be they arent worth the thought or your time.

@snp6687 Im not apart of their family and they make that clear that's why i don't come around

@snp6687 He really is

@proudmommyoftwo_ he sounds like such a piece of shit!!

@angelinamomwife For no reason at that sis I could see if I was disrespectful and didn't listen do anything I wanted to do. But it wasn't nothing like that I was raised like that my aunt and my mama raised me and they didn't tolerate nor put up with disrespecting your elders. Never have i disrespected an elder and im not going to unless you give me a reason to. But i already know how it would've went down i would've destroyed the house and their cars probably would've had to fight everybody up in there so i would-ve got a few assault charges and damage to property and vehicles kids would've got taken from me so yeah i think i handled it well.

@proudmommyoftwo_ I hope to move soon but mil was just talking about moving up north with her mom idk I just need her gone then all this extra stuff in this house can go

@skyy12221 Right cause all that anger and frustration was building up like I was reaching my breaking point

I can imagine so. All the petty crap you went through was very unnecessary@proudmommyoftwo_

@proudmommyoftwo_ yeah it was definitely time to go!

@angelinamomwife Thank you sis im just so glad to be away it was a huge weight lifted off my shoulders.

@skyy12221 I had to girl because I was about to fuck that whole entire house up. Out of respect for my fiance was the only reason why i didn't destroy that house and their cars so i had to leave because I know me I know how i get I will take it there .

Everything will get better day by day! Keep encouraged@proudmommyoftwo_

@proudmommyoftwo_ that's sad 😢😢 he'll have to answer to God for that and all the other wrongs he's done. Don't punish my kids to get at me smh I'm glad you left

@snp6687 True I feel you on that Im probably going to be the same way and im going to let my fiance know your father is not welcomed in my house im sorry. Because the way he treated me and my daughter when we was staying in his house was so fucking dirty girl he would cook breakfast and dinner and would make sure everybody in the house ate but me and my daughter my youngest is still on formula. Like how could you do somebody like that let alone an innocent child he did that because he didn't like me okay so my child doesn't have to suffer because of how you feel about me all the other kids ate so why couldn't she? Girl it was just time to go .

@proudmommyoftwo_ hang in there mama and I agree you shouldn't have to beg no one to be in your daughters life and you can't change who you are so they have no choice but to accept you cause even if you could I know you wouldn't change to please them. But shoot you haven't done anything for them not to like you (same with me) so what the heck?! My hubby doesn't like his dysfunctional family and he actually wants to move far away from them when we can, I don't blame him

Stay strong!!! It may not seem like it at the moment...but things will get better.

@skyy12221 I lived with my in laws for the whole year of 2015 and it was pure hell for me girl this was before i had got pregnant with my youngest (they have different dads btw) and it was just horrible they treated me the same way smh so we moved out and got us an apartment i got pregnant so i became a stay at home mom to save money because we couldn't afford daycare. So my boyfriend was paying all the bills and stuff so he ended up losing his job and the only resort we had was to go back to his parents house girl i dreaded it so bad because i already knew what time it was at that was this year in May we just left two weeks ago i couldn't deal with the drama and the mistreatment any longer it was a different ball game because my fiance wasn't there so i was staying there alone pretty much me and my kids i didn't have him there to defend me like i know he would.

@skyy12221 Exactly girl and by my fiance working traveling being on the road there's really not much he can say or do because he's not physically here. When his dad told me that at the family meeting I almost bust out in tears because I just don't understand what I did that was so bad to him. Its like you want your in laws to accept you for the sake of your kids you feel me? yes they can say what they want to their son but at the end of the day Im the mother they have to go through me especially with anything dealing with our daughter. Since we left I have yet to hear anything from his mother she don't text nor call me and im like damn i know you would like to see your grand daughter or it least know how shes doing or do you even care 🤔 evidently she doesn't because she has yet to hit my phone. Im not gone call or text her im not about to beg nobody to be in my childs life who don't want to be. My side of the family is very dysfunctional so all I ever wanted was for my future mans family to love and accept me to make up for the love i didn't receive from mines but it don't always work like that. All i know is im done trying to prove myself to them they gone have to let that pettiness go.

@snp6687 we live with mine and can't afford to move out at the moment 😞

⬆ omg my MIL is exactly the same way!!! Which is why we now have our own apartment and until she changes and kicks her habits...I have made it clear that she will not be allowed in our home.

I'm sorry hun, I know the feeling. My mil admitted to me that at the beginning she didnt like me and thought that I was just some piece of trash on the street my hubby was dealing with and would eventually get rid of me and she never thought he would've married me and had kids..to this day I think she tolerates me. I stole her baby so now she don't get all my hubby's attention no more. She competes with me and its sick not annoying sick well that too but literally sick as in what mother does that?! One example is my hubby got me a new wedding ring she got jealous and bought herself one similar to put on her ring finger. My oldest son is her favorite, she doesn't like my second child and we have a 3rd on the way. My hubbys father isn't in the picture he never wanted anything to so with my hubby although my hubby has a brother and he would do anything for him. My hubby tried telling his dad about us and our kids and he never responded. My mil talks behind my back as well and one of her daughters tried to literally fight me over the stuff my mil told her and mil acted like she had no idea why she wanted to fight me 🙄 I know how you feel mama, I'm so sorry you're going through this but they don't have to deal with you your soon to be husband does so if he loves you and wants to marry you their opinion shouldn't matter although I know its hard having a child/their grandchild in the mix.