Ok, im just going to put this out there. Don't act like you have never went through your man's phone, wallet or pockets. It may not be because you are suspicious, it could just be "oh, whats this?" It doesnt mean you don't trust him, you could just be curious.
#everyrelationshipisdifferent
Literally have never looked through his stuff. If I feel the need to inspect his shit our trust is already gone, and it’s either time to work on building it up again without snooping or pack up and move on.
If I didn’t check my husbands pockets I’d be washing a tin of Copenhagen and lord knows that’s a bloody mess...you try picking chewing tobacco off your clothes for a week.
@laniejay, Your husbands phone probably only secretly contains websites like teepee building online tutorials “for dummies” anyways so no need..LOL sorry had to.
PS OP your emoji investigation is comical...sad but comical. Try knitting it may give you something fulfilling and PRODUCTIVE to do with yourself.
That is all. Giddy up.
@laniejay, OMG I just remembered this one time he googled “herpes” for the purposes of an argument with some weird guy on his drill rig and he asked me to google map something while we were driving...omg he almost crapped his pants trying to explain why there was a herpes page up on his safari 😂😂😂
I saw a guy wearing a Blumpkin T-shirt it was descriptive no need for google 😂🤢
I've never gone creeping through my husband's phone or wallet. You're right, every relationship is different: some are healthy and some are not.
Every relationship IS different. Which is why I haven’t gone thru my husbands shit.
Lmao k so i go threw my husbands phone because he asks me to reply or what to reply in certain situations, i go in his wallet to get cards for taxes and if we need groceries and hes busy with our son and also go threw his pockets when i do laundry. Im also the one that cleans the damn house so i go threw the night stand yadi yada. If i didn't have to i wouldnt. You're last post said you go on her phone and look for recent emojis. Theres a difference between using her phone for her or to contact someone if yours died and you see the emoji list, which btw wtf is the obsession with that one, and going looking for it purposely. I seriously dont get the emoji thing though. "Why you sending poop to Janice" lmao
@beakymcspence I got curious as well 😂😂😂
Boy I'd be in trouble cause I rarely message my "man". 😂
@pamelawife134, well your name isn’t “pamelawife134” either so what shall we call you?
I mean I check his pockets when I’m doing laundry 🤷🏽♀️ but no I don’t creep his texts.
But if y’all both crazy and it works for y’all whatever
Never went through my mans phone. Wallet yes. Looking for money. But I don’t have a trust issue.
Sure do. I check those pockets because if I don't, it is the end to everyone's clothes in the washer and dryer. As for everything else...that's not healthy or normal for a relationship.
just because it's not normal to everyone but her doesn't mean it not normal.
Educated guess lol.
🤔 Hmm
...I am not too sure myself. But, I think what she is trying to say is there is no such thing as normal. Everyone's perception of "normal" can be different, depending on their own personal experiences.
So, let's just say that is not "typical" behavior for a trusting marital couple's relationship lol.
With my kids father yes. I used to lurk on his social media from my phone, check his wallet or any clothes he had on... I couldn't ever check his phone cause he had a password. Well before he added a password, I went through his phone and that's why he decided to put a password. I was young and stupid. And "in love" so I only wanted him for myself. It's like I was obsessed. But he was a cheating asshole so that's why I went through his stuff. I would even check likes and comments from Facebook. I had a so called cousin follow him on IG just so I could spy on him....
So yes. Going through emojis is super weird hun. And like everyone else said. It's controlling and obsessive.
I don't check my boyfriend stuff at all... Because I trust him.. The only time I check his pockets are if we go to the laundromat and I have to make sure there's nothing in there.
I dont check my fiance phone we trade phone often bc we like to see whats happening on each other social media he will check my messages if I get one. I check his pockets if he ask me to get something ,laundry day ,or if I need aomething and I'm its in his pocket. Your being overboard with it . and alot of things aren't as they seem at times
I only check pockets for gum, pens, candy while doing laundry, and I don’t look through his phone I could if I wanted, neither of us have passwords because we trust each other fully🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I can't say that I have. I don't go through nothing. I've washed my husband's lighters, money, cards, cigarettes because I don't check his pockets. His phone I don't check because legit I don't care. If I ever suspect something I'll just wait for it to come to the light. 🤷🏼♀️
So if I have to go through my husband’s things, then I need to re-evaluate our marriage. When I was a teenager or even in my early 20’s, yes I did but you are super duper deep with your investigation. I don’t believe this is healthy. Time to do some re-evaluating
I’ve never gone through my husbands wallet, and the only reason I check his pockets is to get the shot out of it before I put it in the wash, and I only check his phone when he’s busy and needs me to read a text for him or answer a call 🤷🏻♀️
Same lol I only open his wallet if he needs something. Just like he never goes in my purse😂
Okay but I haven’t soooo...not everyone is curious or nosey. I don’t have time to look for shit that’s not there. Lol
@lizology27_bb im not insecure. Im not looking for anything. I trust her completely. Im not stressed. I casually look as i am looking for an emoji. Its not a big deal. We have a happy, healthy, obviously abnormal relationship and thats ok
how is it happy or healthy if u are playing Inspector Gadget looking at her emojis? I don’t even know the ones I use often and it’s my phone. But what’s good for the goose must be good for the gander.... at least in your case. I wish you nothing but the best with all of that. 🙃
If you’re talking about your previous post... you asked if it was weird & everyone said yes... what you were really looking for was “of course that’s normal” lol! What you’re doing is reaching for something that’s not there 😆
@pamelawife134, so is weird relative? Bc u asked was it weird, right?
i know how we feel about the stuff we do. Its us. I just wanted to know the opinions of others. We don't always conform, not much normal going on over here and yet we are still happy and healthy.
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Beaky Mcspence·
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If I didn’t check my husbands pockets I’d be washing a tin of Copenhagen and lord knows that’s a bloody mess...you try picking chewing tobacco off your clothes for a week.
@laniejay, Your husbands phone probably only secretly contains websites like teepee building online tutorials “for dummies” anyways so no need..LOL sorry had to.
PS OP your emoji investigation is comical...sad but comical. Try knitting it may give you something fulfilling and PRODUCTIVE to do with yourself.
That is all. Giddy up.
Beaky Mcspence··
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@laniejay, I saw a guy wearing a Blumpkin T-shirt it was descriptive no need for google 😂🤢
Lanie Jay··
Мама троих детей
😂😂😂
Beaky Mcspence··
В ожидании первенца
OMG I just remembered this one time he googled “herpes” for the purposes of an argument with some weird guy on his drill rig and he asked me to google map something while we were driving...omg he almost crapped his pants trying to explain why there was a herpes page up on his safari 😂😂😂
Lisa··
Мама сына-младенца
LMFAO FUCKERY TO SPREAD 😂😂😂😂
Lanie Jay··
Мама троих детей
If he were to go through my phone he'd laugh his ass off at the things I've googled- most random shit ever. I know his is the same 🤪 blumpkins, blue waffle... he'd hide the teepee evidence and take that to the grave 😂😂😂
BakingDaddy ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
Sure do. I check those pockets because if I don't, it is the end to everyone's clothes in the washer and dryer. As for everything else...that's not healthy or normal for a relationship.
That Mom··
🤔 Hmm
...I am not too sure myself. But, I think what she is trying to say is there is no such thing as normal. Everyone's perception of "normal" can be different, depending on their own personal experiences.
So, let's just say that is not "typical" behavior for a trusting marital couple's relationship lol.
Lizology27··
Мама сына-младенца
in this case.... justification 🤷🏾♀️
Shay··
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
just because it's not normal to everyone but her doesn't mean it not normal.
Educated guess lol.
BakingDaddy ··
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
what does that even mean lol
Lizology27··
Мама сына-младенца
Healthy and normal are relative.... just quoting the OP’s comment. 🤷🏾♀️