Ok, im just going to put this out there. Don't act like you have never went through your man's phone, wallet or pockets. It may not be because you are suspicious, it could just be "oh, whats this?" It doesnt mean you don't trust him, you could just be curious.
#everyrelationshipisdifferent
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Sure do. I check those pockets because if I don't, it is the end to everyone's clothes in the washer and dryer. As for everything else...that's not healthy or normal for a relationship.
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Literally have never looked through his stuff. If I feel the need to inspect his shit our trust is already gone, and it’s either time to work on building it up again without snooping or pack up and move on.
@laniejay, OMG I just remembered this one time he googled “herpes” for the purposes of an argument with some weird guy on his drill rig and he asked me to google map something while we were driving...omg he almost crapped his pants trying to explain why there was a herpes page up on his safari 😂😂😂
@laniejay, I saw a guy wearing a Blumpkin T-shirt it was descriptive no need for google 😂🤢
I've never gone creeping through my husband's phone or wallet. You're right, every relationship is different: some are healthy and some are not.
Every relationship IS different. Which is why I haven’t gone thru my husbands shit.
Lmao k so i go threw my husbands phone because he asks me to reply or what to reply in certain situations, i go in his wallet to get cards for taxes and if we need groceries and hes busy with our son and also go threw his pockets when i do laundry. Im also the one that cleans the damn house so i go threw the night stand yadi yada. If i didn't have to i wouldnt. You're last post said you go on her phone and look for recent emojis. Theres a difference between using her phone for her or to contact someone if yours died and you see the emoji list, which btw wtf is the obsession with that one, and going looking for it purposely. I seriously dont get the emoji thing though. "Why you sending poop to Janice" lmao
@pamelawife134, well your name isn’t “pamelawife134” either so what shall we call you?
I mean I check his pockets when I’m doing laundry 🤷🏽♀️ but no I don’t creep his texts.
But if y’all both crazy and it works for y’all whatever
Never went through my mans phone. Wallet yes. Looking for money. But I don’t have a trust issue.
Sure do. I check those pockets because if I don't, it is the end to everyone's clothes in the washer and dryer. As for everything else...that's not healthy or normal for a relationship.
@bodybycheetos just because it's not normal to everyone but her doesn't mean it not normal.
Educated guess lol.
@bodybycheetos 🤔 Hmm
...I am not too sure myself. But, I think what she is trying to say is there is no such thing as normal. Everyone's perception of "normal" can be different, depending on their own personal experiences.
So, let's just say that is not "typical" behavior for a trusting marital couple's relationship lol.
With my kids father yes. I used to lurk on his social media from my phone, check his wallet or any clothes he had on... I couldn't ever check his phone cause he had a password. Well before he added a password, I went through his phone and that's why he decided to put a password. I was young and stupid. And "in love" so I only wanted him for myself. It's like I was obsessed. But he was a cheating asshole so that's why I went through his stuff. I would even check likes and comments from Facebook. I had a so called cousin follow him on IG just so I could spy on him....
So yes. Going through emojis is super weird hun. And like everyone else said. It's controlling and obsessive.
I don't check my boyfriend stuff at all... Because I trust him.. The only time I check his pockets are if we go to the laundromat and I have to make sure there's nothing in there.
I dont check my fiance phone we trade phone often bc we like to see whats happening on each other social media he will check my messages if I get one. I check his pockets if he ask me to get something ,laundry day ,or if I need aomething and I'm its in his pocket. Your being overboard with it . and alot of things aren't as they seem at times
I only check pockets for gum, pens, candy while doing laundry, and I don’t look through his phone I could if I wanted, neither of us have passwords because we trust each other fully🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I can't say that I have. I don't go through nothing. I've washed my husband's lighters, money, cards, cigarettes because I don't check his pockets. His phone I don't check because legit I don't care. If I ever suspect something I'll just wait for it to come to the light. 🤷🏼♀️
Ok so you’re brainwashed into thinking this is normal behavior then
So if I have to go through my husband’s things, then I need to re-evaluate our marriage. When I was a teenager or even in my early 20’s, yes I did but you are super duper deep with your investigation. I don’t believe this is healthy. Time to do some re-evaluating
I’ve never gone through my husbands wallet, and the only reason I check his pockets is to get the shot out of it before I put it in the wash, and I only check his phone when he’s busy and needs me to read a text for him or answer a call 🤷🏻♀️
Same lol I only open his wallet if he needs something. Just like he never goes in my purse😂
Okay but I haven’t soooo...not everyone is curious or nosey. I don’t have time to look for shit that’s not there. Lol
@pamelawife134, how is it happy or healthy if u are playing Inspector Gadget looking at her emojis? I don’t even know the ones I use often and it’s my phone. But what’s good for the goose must be good for the gander.... at least in your case. I wish you nothing but the best with all of that. 🙃
@lizology27_bb, Inspector gadget omg I love you 😂😂
If you’re talking about your previous post... you asked if it was weird & everyone said yes... what you were really looking for was “of course that’s normal” lol! What you’re doing is reaching for something that’s not there 😆
@pamelawife134, so is weird relative? Bc u asked was it weird, right?
@pamelawife134 if you have to ask if it's weird, that makes it not normal.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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