So I found two lumps on my breast, I went to my doctor's and they want me to go Monday to get a mammogram. I am scared very scared and I just need someone to talk to but than I don't talk to anyone. No one in my family knows because I don't want to say anything. The only ones that know is my husband and mom and they want to go to the doctors with me but I don't want them to miss work because I would feel horrible if they missed a day of pay and nothing is wrong. Now my husband and I are arguing because I've been keeping to myself and I want to cry but I don't because again I don't want to hear the whole well don't cry you don't even know what's wrong. I feel like I'm losing it!!!
Have they done an ultrasound? They usually do an ultrasound first and then do a mammogram if the ultrasound shows something to be concerned about. I have had two lumps. The first they did a biopsy on and it was a cyst and I opted to have it removed. The second, they did an ultrasound first and then bc it showed connecting threads to my breast tissue, they did a mammogram. The mammogram showed it was benign thank God. I chose not to have it removed bc I had recently had my fair share of surgeries and I was sick of being under the knife. They did however insert a metal ball inside the lump so they know they checked it in the future. It was a very scary experience and I kept it all to myself and did a lot of crying at night and praying. I pray everything is ok with you. PS a mammogram doesn't hurt like everyone tends to say
You could just have cystic breast my family history we do we feel a lump chould be breast cancer also in our family chould be just a cyst and speacking from my family as you get older they show up so honestly yes you have a right to be scared its a scary situation not knowing but also take a step back and breath alittle
Thank you mamas, I will be getting it checked tomorrow. I'm just so scared but I know it could be a few different things. Thank you both!!!
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