Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Right me too @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Oh good! Then you should be alright 😁 so glad they didn't get your money!
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
No they didn't @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Oh good so they didn't ask for your social or anything? Because that's the only thing I would worry about
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Nope they let me know like 3 hours later that we got accepted 😂 @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kaela3, they didn't do a credit check did they?
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
This is the number... the number even says there not from North Carolina I wish I would have looked at it before I filled out the application and stuff @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kaela3, oh geez. People in this world make me sick sometimes
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
It sure did! My boyfriend would have killed someone if he lost that 2,000$ to stupid people @savvysmama,
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
My friend got the same exact "congratulations" email before and hers was a scam too @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
That saved you guys a lot of money and frustration down the road!
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Omg! I'm so glad you did some digging!!
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
He was upset but he knew it was fishy and the realtor emailed me back this morning and said it's a scam! @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kaela3, what did your boyfriend say?
Jordan·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@kaela3, this same exact thing happened to a friend of mine. Definitely a scam.
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
The person never replied back! Cause he knows I'm right @savvysmama,
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm just so annoyed like why are there people like this in the world? Get people all excited and shit for nothing @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Lol get it girl!
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Yeah I could do that. I'm not even gonna wait for them to reply I'm just gonna tell them that they are scammers 😂😂 I'm gonna leave the number unlocked for the night to see if they reply but I'll block it in the morning again @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kaela3, go check it out on Sunday. If there is an open house, ask a ton of questions. Then tell the realtor about the post if all checks out with the realtor
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Yes I am! It's just in another town like 10 mins away @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Hmmm...ya something still doesn't feel right! If it says there is an open house on Sunday, are you close enough that you can go to it?
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
No we do not he said once the money goes through we'll get the keys sent within 24 hours!! And ok lol Actually I asked him if there really is an open house for the house cause it says there is one on Sunday and he never replied and I asked him how long he's lived there and he never replied @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Do you already have the keys?
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Especially if the post had pictures. Tell him you were so excited and wanted to show your mom or something and you saw the post was gone.
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
I should unlock him and ask 😂😂😂 @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kaela3, lol no I meant the internet information for the attorney
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Oh I know the feeling! Ask him why the post got taken down. Be completely innocent and naive about it lol
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Oh no it was just posted yesterday!! And the house was just posted on realtor 10 days ago @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Maybe that's an old listing? It would be sad to lose such a nice place because it seems sketchy and then turns out nothing is wrong.
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
I really do want to email him😂😂😂 cause I blocked his number already @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kaela3, call them out on it!!
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Yeah but VA isn't in North Carolina lol I think we're just gonna look elsewhere just to be safe!! @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Double check with the realtor. If that all check out, you may be ok. But don't send money until you get all of your ducks in a row
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
@savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
I googled the name and attorney. It came up in VA though
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Yeah that doesn't add up at all.....there saying she's from North Carolina not VA
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
That's on the same site
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
That's all I found
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
How did you find the info for the lady? I looked it up and nothing came up @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Call the realtor tomorrow. Make sure they own the property. Then find the number for the attorney and call. If that checks out, you may be ok
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Yeah well they claim she is from North Carolina !!! @savvysmama,
Courtney·
В ожидании первенца
Yes that means it is a scam
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
So there is an attorney is VA named Stacey Moye, and the street address given comes up in VA as well
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
So not going too!! Thanks for the help everyone @chelseaaverdugo,
Chelsea·
Мама сына (7 лет)
When they get flagged it usually means their account is blocked because of fraud / my husband got scammed 900$ before by someone / so I wouldn't trust it .
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
This is the pic they sent me 🙄 @savvysmama, @b3autifulm3ss,
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm not going too! I blocked his number.. my boyfriend is going to be upset because it is a nice house but he knew something was sketchy about all of it @b3autifulm3ss,
Michelle·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@kaela3 these people arent even in this country... you dont have to worry momma, just dont send them any money
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
And ok good that makes me so nervous @b3autifulm3ss,
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
@savvysmama,
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
I'll Show you what he sent me
Michelle·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@kaela3 that the post was deleted... what happens is people take photos from houses that are vacant and for sale off the internet then they makes posts on CL and steal your money... they dont usually do anything with the info (DL, Address, etc.) Unless you gave them your SS #, bank account and other "personal info" then they could try to steal your identity but with just the DL and address they cant do much
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Using someone else's name, not using the correct address or even spelling the town correctly. Something doesn't seem right. Is it going to a PO Box?
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
I blocked the guys number I really want to block him from my email too but don't know how
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
@b3autifulm3ss, omg I'm not doing it!!! I'm so upset they have info about us tho 😞😞
Michelle·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@kaela3 dont do it!!! Dont send them any money period... this happened to my husband and i (we never sent the money) we called the realtor and asked them, they had NO CLUE
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
It's my moms address tho 😞 @savvysmama,
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
What means it's a scam ? @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kaela3, I understand the feeling. But try not to freak out about it too much. Hopefully it won't be your address much longer
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Omg I really hope they don't do anything with our info ...... @savvysmama,
Michelle·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@kaela3 yes that means its a scam
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kaela3, run girl. That's smells like a scam!
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
I sent him a pic of our licenses and my address in the application 😩 so scared @savvysmama,
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
I searched the name and nothing came up AND I searched the address online and on my maps and the zip code and the way he spelled the town isn't correct @savvysmama,
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Good idea @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Google the name. If it comes up as a real attorney, call them
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Yes @savvysmama, apparently it's his lawyer
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Did he tell you who's name to put on it?
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
The house is beautiful but I literally don't want to even send the people the money because of it being taken off of the Craigslist site... my boyfriend even said it seemed a little sketchy... they said to take a picture when we do the money order and send it to them and the person he told me to send it to he didn't even give me an address.. just the city state and zip code.. @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kaela3, just be super super careful. The people we met(and we physically met them and saw the property)turned out to be complete slum lords and the entire house was uninhabitable. We took them to court. And are still having to take her back to court over a year later because she refuses to pay us what we won in court. To the point where if she doesn't show up for the next court date, she'll be arrested
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Yes he did say something about the sign being in the yard! He was like pay no mind to it.. I emailed the realtor my situation... hopefully he'll answer soon! @ncmomma,
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
I know I like can't sleep cause I'm sketched out ... I know the house is real but these people don't seem too real to me... @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Definitely see what the realtor says first!
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
We were going to do the money order tomorrow
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
That feels super sketchy...
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
No we have not I just filled out an application through email
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Also they sent me a pic of the FedEx box with the keys and them! Then when they called Me the guy did not seem as old as the person in the pic ☹️ @savvysmama,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Have you paid them any deposits yet? Signed any paperwork?
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Uh, ya that right there, HUGE red flag! Don't do it!!
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
@savvysmama,
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Yeah I'm very nervous because the couple claims to be living in North Carolina because the job got stationed there and they will check in on us in 4 months to make sure the house is nice and clean and it's just weird ! Although it is a really nice house
kaela3·
Мама сына-младенца
Right!!! My boyfriend is all excited but when I just found this I'm like uh... I'm gonna tell him in the am. And weird thing is the house is on the realtor site and the guy claims that he's not going through the realtor anymore like then why wouldn't you have them take it down?? I emailed the realtor to... It's just weird @justusthree,
Jennifer Chapman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Not necessarily. Someone flagged it to be removed. It can be as simple as someone being mad at the person posting the ad and flagging it for removal just to be a pain in the a$$. But definitely do your research on who you are renting from. Coming from someone that not only had to take a landlord I met on Craigslist to court to get money back, but is also still battling to get the money over a year later, I recommend you guys be super diligent and very cautious when renting from someone on Craigslist!
Jordan·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I personally wouldn't trust it