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Husband brought up baby making last night and my heart almost burst from my chest. But I didn't push the conversation I…

Husband brought up baby making last night and my heart almost burst from my chest. But I didn't push the conversation I just left him talk. It was such an amazing feeling hearing him say those words. My husband feels he won't be able to support us for me to stay home (even though I'd love to I don't mind working) and he wants us to have everything and anything. He has a hard time realizing I just want him to stop worrying and all I need is him. I love my husband more than words can describe. Anyone else have a husband/significant other who is afraid of having a baby just because they feel they won't make a good parent or they won't be able to provide enough?

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adams2017

YviВ ожидании первенца

😂 @mrsduga

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Samantha

@adams2017, haha true that! 💜

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YviВ ожидании первенца

Thats what i was thinking lol @mrsduga At least we are not alone in this lol

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Samantha

@adams2017, maybe it's just a man thing. Lol

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YviВ ожидании первенца

Exactlly same here 😟 @mrsduga

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Samantha

@adams2017, definitely I mean I love that he wants to support me and our future family but I also want him to know I don't expect it and I don't want him to be stressed. I just want him to be happy.

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Samantha

@beebaby, hahaha!! Sometimes I feel they are more dramatic than we are!

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adams2017

YviВ ожидании первенца

But theres nothing more better than a man just trynna take care of the family .. Must say we've got ourselves a good catch 😂😉💍 @mrsduga

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YviВ ожидании первенца

Yes he is more worried now that iv try to support the talk with working he is persisting i be a stay at home mom and now im like stuck but i did however mention opening a daycare maybe so it wont be as much worries and still a no go 😂 @mrsduga

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Samantha

@adams2017, makes sense. lol sometimes they feel they need to carry the entire burden and really I'm just as confident of helping out cause I love work also!

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YviВ ожидании первенца

I told him not to worried though he wants me to be a stay at home mom which i would love to but i love working so i advised him i will be working not as much as i do now theres so he dosent have to worry but he still worries 😟 @mrsduga

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Samantha

@beebaby, do you think it was from a childhood thing? Or just what he feel?

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Samantha

@adams2017, what do you say to him about it?

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YviВ ожидании первенца

Mine as well @mrsduga

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Samantha

@beebaby, @beebaby, omg yes!!!! That is exactly how he feels! My husband is a big burly muscle man and he's like "what if I drop him/her or squish them? What if I go to wipe their nose and I break it" lol I'm like "omg relax hah" I know it's a serious fear but he's dramatic.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

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