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Z'Quisha Rivera
I'm so irritated ! So my boyfriend has a 4 year old son, he doesn't see him often but he already rubbed me the wrong way when he said that his son is his favorite child. I had already felt like he was going to treat my daughter different when he said it. Then today he he's talking about June which is when I'm due and how he's going to be doing this and that with his son but never mentioned the new baby like she's going to be a new born and I'm going to be doing everything alone because his favorite child is here like I'm not mad about his son coming I'm not jealous of him doing things with his son BUT , what I do have a have a problem with is him not making my daughter an equal . I completely understand he's not able to see his son as much but my daughter shouldn't have to suffer and I shouldn't be doing it alone especially the first month.
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zrivera22

@shaylynnansage, yeah I know it tough but don't do anything drastic until the baby gets her I was talking to my cousin and she said it normal for them not to feel anything until the baby gets here. But I know that's how I feel at times it so irritating I know

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zrivera22

@shaylynnansage, yeah I know it tough but don't do anything drastic until the baby gets her I was talking to my cousin and she said it normal for them not to feel anything until the baby gets here. But I know that's how I feel at times it so irritating I know

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shaylynnansage

Actually got into a argument last night bc he has a 8 month old son with another woman an he's his screen savor and everything but he can't pay attention to our unborn baby. I told him I was gunna leave and we won't be a problem anymore and he almost had a melt down of losing me , but when it comes to the baby I won't let her feel like she's not important just bc he already has a son. If he doesn't change I'm leaving bc she needs to feel important too

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zrivera22

@millermommie, it's so irritating

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zrivera22

@hippiemom26, baby mother issue and she lives way across the country and visitations

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millermommie

mine is the same way!

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hippiemom26

@zrivera22, wow he sounds like my sons father. If you don't mind my asking why doesn't he see him that much

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zrivera22

@hippiemom26, no because I know him and how he'll flip it to be being selfish because he doesn't get to see his son. And blah blah blah. And I don't want to argue with him

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hippiemom26

@zrivera22, have to talked to him about it

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zrivera22

@hippiemom26, I'm pretty sure it's just annoying that he keeps saying things like that and it makes me feel bad and I know it's probably my hormones too I just hate being irritated and he keeps doing it

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hippiemom26

I understand what your saying I felt the same because my son dad had a son before we were together and he always praised him but wouldn't just talk about our baby. But once our son was born he loved him and praised him all the same. So don't worry because once he lays eyes on your daughter he's gonna be whipped

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The baby isn't here yet so guys don't have the connection all the time until the baby arrives. I haven't talked about what I will do with my baby because I have 2 son's I'm caring for now

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