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Z'Quisha Rivera
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I'm so irritated ! So my boyfriend has a 4 year old son, he doesn't see him often but he already rubbed me the wrong way…

I'm so irritated ! So my boyfriend has a 4 year old son, he doesn't see him often but he already rubbed me the wrong way when he said that his son is his favorite child. I had already felt like he was going to treat my daughter different when he said it. Then today he he's talking about June which is when I'm due and how he's going to be doing this and that with his son but never mentioned the new baby like she's going to be a new born and I'm going to be doing everything alone because his favorite child is here like I'm not mad about his son coming I'm not jealous of him doing things with his son BUT , what I do have a have a problem with is him not making my daughter an equal . I completely understand he's not able to see his son as much but my daughter shouldn't have to suffer and I shouldn't be doing it alone especially the first month.

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zrivera22

Z'Quisha Rivera

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@shaylynnansage, yeah I know it tough but don't do anything drastic until the baby gets her I was talking to my cousin and she said it normal for them not to feel anything until the baby gets here. But I know that's how I feel at times it so irritating I know

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shaylynn O'Malley

Actually got into a argument last night bc he has a 8 month old son with another woman an he's his screen savor and everything but he can't pay attention to our unborn baby. I told him I was gunna leave and we won't be a problem anymore and he almost had a melt down of losing me , but when it comes to the baby I won't let her feel like she's not important just bc he already has a son. If he doesn't change I'm leaving bc she needs to feel important too

zrivera22

Z'Quisha Rivera

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@millermommie, it's so irritating

zrivera22

Z'Quisha Rivera

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@hippiemom26, baby mother issue and she lives way across the country and visitations

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Heather Miller

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

mine is the same way!

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Shanequa Robinson

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@zrivera22, wow he sounds like my sons father. If you don't mind my asking why doesn't he see him that much

zrivera22

Z'Quisha Rivera

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@hippiemom26, no because I know him and how he'll flip it to be being selfish because he doesn't get to see his son. And blah blah blah. And I don't want to argue with him

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Shanequa Robinson

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@zrivera22, have to talked to him about it

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Z'Quisha Rivera

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@hippiemom26, I'm pretty sure it's just annoying that he keeps saying things like that and it makes me feel bad and I know it's probably my hormones too I just hate being irritated and he keeps doing it

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Shanequa Robinson

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I understand what your saying I felt the same because my son dad had a son before we were together and he always praised him but wouldn't just talk about our baby. But once our son was born he loved him and praised him all the same. So don't worry because once he lays eyes on your daughter he's gonna be whipped

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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The baby isn't here yet so guys don't have the connection all the time until the baby arrives. I haven't talked about what I will do with my baby because I have 2 son's I'm caring for now

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.