So because of Caroline and how she was a surprise and such a wonderful gift. I don't want to start up on birth control after my final checkup. If she was supposed to happen then what if I'm supposed to have another baby? Everyone is telling me that I should go on birth control, you don't want to have one right after you are healing, you need more time to grieve. But I'll always need time to heal and grieve. I just don't want to mess up what is intended on me to do. Is that wrong?
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Well I know your body is supposed to heal. I'm not rushing anything. I'm just looking at it from how many time we weren't careful yet nothing happened. Then out of nowhere Caroline was made. I want to make sure I don't get pregnant before 3 months. But I don't want to wait a certain amount of time. If I am meant to have another baby, I'm hoping the timing will be okay. I just want life to take its path. It did for her. Hopefully it'll do it for my next. Whether that be in 5 months or a year. I just don't want to stop life from doing what it is intended to do.
Your body needs time to heal. It takes up to a year for your body to completely heal after giving birth.
@nicemmcha2015 Oh Ik. She will never be replaced or ever could be. She has brought my family together and I will forever be in debt to her for that. She has given so many reasons for things I never had answers to and her name will forever be remembered. I just want my next one to happen like her. Out of the blue, unplanned but such an impact.
@xmellybeanx if you decide to have another just make sure you can mentally deal with it. no baby will ever replace her. so don't have another just to fill that hole. have another because you want to. because becoming pregnant right now won't stop that pain. I'm sorry you lost her. she was too perfect for this terrible world.
@nicemmcha2015 That's how I looked at it. My bf and I were together a good year before we had Caroline. There were plently of times we didn't use protection, and nothing happened. She was a blessing. I have never been on b.c either. God took her for some reason I'm trying to figure out. Maybe it was to make me stronger. I have no idea. I just keep getting told I need to plan things out but I've never been a planner.
if you're "meant" to have another one then going on birth control won't matter because it'll happen anyway. but not going on birth control you'll definitely get pregnant. it depends on how you want to look at it. God gives people choices and those choices lead to where they end up in life. If you want another kid. don't take b.c. if you don't then take b.c. that simple.
@jonathensmom Well my little one is an Angel. So that's why I feel like if I'm intended to have another one then I shouldn't try to stop it. Ya know?
How soon if you don't mind me asking?