guys can be ......stuck in there own world. I needed my bf to be so attentive in the beginning and surprisingly he was distant. I know this is what he's always wanted but his action was showing me something else. I think he was/is scared. but I really didn't want to have to understand his feelings because it's all about me right?lol I just try to focus on me because I don't want any negative energy. I get a lot of emotional support from family and friends but let's be honest girls we want it more from our s.o. I would suggest just communicating your feelings and hopefully one day they will get it.

i understand.... mine works hard. all day. and is tired. i get it. but he isnt openly emotional. like am i not what you want ? you dont touch me or kiss me. its like i always have to be the one to initiate it. show me you want me !! and yes... i want to push away as well. i know he wont chase me ...

yeah i hear ya @esthelaaa05 . my ex was emotionally and mentally very abusive so i always kinda wonder if I'm reading way to much into nothing or if it really is the way i see it. sometimes it is sometimes its not. if its just holiday stress it will pass and everything will be good as new. but if its more then that waiting won't help. i just wanna curl up and be left alone but at the same time i want to be cuddled and loved on. ugh!

same here.... he works all the time. and is not sensitive at ALL. and i need attention. i need love... and im not getting it the way i want. i blow things out of proportion