so blue the past couple days. not happy with my so. but im hesitant to bring it up because im not sure if its the stress of the holidays getting to me. or maybe to him making him act different. the stress of ttc for so long with no results. or if things have really deteriorated this badly and I'm not crazy. i came from an abusive relationship before my so so i can be a bit over sensitive to things if my stress is up. so i sit quietly and wonder. and stress. and worry. i just want things back to normal. :( sorry for the rant. just wanted to tell someone.
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i understand.... mine works hard. all day. and is tired. i get it. but he isnt openly emotional. like am i not what you want ? you dont touch me or kiss me. its like i always have to be the one to initiate it. show me you want me !! and yes... i want to push away as well. i know he wont chase me ...
yeah i hear ya @esthelaaa05 . my ex was emotionally and mentally very abusive so i always kinda wonder if I'm reading way to much into nothing or if it really is the way i see it. sometimes it is sometimes its not. if its just holiday stress it will pass and everything will be good as new. but if its more then that waiting won't help. i just wanna curl up and be left alone but at the same time i want to be cuddled and loved on. ugh!
same here.... he works all the time. and is not sensitive at ALL. and i need attention. i need love... and im not getting it the way i want. i blow things out of proportion
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
so my husband wants to feed are baby but the thing is that I will be breastfeeding so idk how it would work. he was thinking that when he wants to feed him he would give him formula but I just want my baby to have breast milk. so then he said why don't you pump your milk out and I'll feed it to him and i thought that would be the best thing but then I'm scared that my baby will get use to the bottle. I need help idk what to do because my husband really wants to feed him :/ and we need to come up...
guys can be ......stuck in there own world. I needed my bf to be so attentive in the beginning and surprisingly he was distant. I know this is what he's always wanted but his action was showing me something else. I think he was/is scared. but I really didn't want to have to understand his feelings because it's all about me right?lol I just try to focus on me because I don't want any negative energy. I get a lot of emotional support from family and friends but let's be honest girls we want it more from our s.o. I would suggest just communicating your feelings and hopefully one day they will get it.