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Eliaris Diaz
Eliaris Diaz
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

My Bf is starting to make me feel some type of way. Yesterday was his birthday and I made a post on facebook giving him…

My Bf is starting to make me feel some type of way. Yesterday was his birthday and I made a post on facebook giving him a B-Day shout out for some reason he hide the post from his wall and I notice he does it to almost everything I tag him in. We have yet to make our pregnancy public told some family but I feel like he hides me because I'm not white and he fears what his family will say. He told me he told his mom he has a baby on the way but didn't tell her I wasn't white what type of bullshit is that 😪

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laila92

Laila Yamili Soto HdzМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Goodluck and I hope all works out

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laila92

Laila Yamili Soto HdzМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

@lili007, your baby deserves to grow up in a loving environment which clearly isn't his family, even if it means raising the baby on your own...

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allyandbabies

AllyМама двоих (младенец)

I feel you girl

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bria

briaМама дочки-младенца

Girlllll. I'm proud of you for saying that and standing up for yourself ! I go through problems with my bfs family not even showing any interest in my daughter .. it's the worst feeling. But you do what's best for the baby and if they act that way keep the baby faaaaaarrrrrr from them !!!

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lili007

Eliaris DiazМама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

I'm am islander and I'm a proud islander his family will not make me feel like I am a problem. My family is so mixed that I wasn't brought up to hate or dislike anyone for their race or color of these skin I will not tolerate that around my child it's just depressing having to be in this situation

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lili007

Eliaris DiazМама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

@bria, @allyandbabies my Puerto Rican ass is not going deal with that bullshit after thanksgiving which is when we plan on making the announcement if I still get the same treatment and feeling I'm washing my hands with him and the family my child don't need that type of negativity in his or her life

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lili007

Eliaris DiazМама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

@datnavajogirl, a little over a year his family is from another state he is the only one that lives here

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reyesmomma

CrystalВ ожидании первенца

@lili007 Well that's weird. If him or his family has a problem with it they can shove it.! Makes zero sense why it would even be an issue.

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lili007

Eliaris DiazМама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

@92angel, we have but briefly the conversation always change I can tell it stresses him out

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allyandbabies

AllyМама двоих (младенец)

That's crazy and I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully she doesn't think anything different of your baby just bc he/she is not going to be fully white

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bria

briaМама дочки-младенца

What @laila92 said. F*+k that ! Save yourself the headache and enjoy your pregnancy. If this is something you can forgive later on than go for it. But don't put up with bs

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lili007

Eliaris DiazМама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

@reyesmomma, he is white but as long as we been dating and his personality and the friends he keep around I would have never guessed it would have been an issue

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deleteplease

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How long have u been with him? and I agree with @laila92

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lili007

Eliaris DiazМама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

@allyandbabies, I'm guessing she is and it's sad

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laila92

Laila Yamili Soto HdzМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

my personal opinion if I was in that situation I would tell his parents personally and leave his ass I wouldn't like anyone hiding me at all idc if im black white brown blue yellow or green...

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92angel

AngelМама дочки (4 года), беременна (40 нед.)

Have you talk to him about it?

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reyesmomma

CrystalВ ожидании первенца

Why would you need to be white.? Is he white.? not like that would matter. Mixed babies r the best.! I'm having a mixed baby. and I'm white if my family had a problem too damn bad.! I'll never be with a white man.

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allyandbabies

AllyМама двоих (младенец)

Does she not like blacks or other races?

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Ok so my son just got his first job. He’s also type 1 diabetic. Well last night while working his sensor starts going…

Ok so my son just got his first job. He’s also type 1 diabetic. Well last night while working his sensor starts going off his blood sugar dropped to 52. They told him he could deal with it after he got his orders done, which in a way I understand that but at the same time if it drops low enough he can pass out and that won’t be good for anyone!! They wouldn’t even let him just grab some glucose tabs out of his bag. I’m so torn here because I don’t know what’s appropriate and what’s not.

EDIT : this post is very long.

EDIT : this post is very long. I need to rant really quick and I am expecting honest answers from some mamas on here! Tell me if I’m wrong. Couple months ago my boyfriend got into an accident and went through a coma, was in a rehab center and for weeks. I was only with him for the first 3 days of him being in the hospital cause him mom kicked me out and didn’t let me see him for months. When he woke up from his coma she lied to me told me that he didn’t remember me or his daughter! When she found out I was pregnant by him she tried to make everyone plus him believe that I cheated on him and got pregnant by someone else but even though she said that he still didn’t believe her which made me really happy! I wrote to her every single day since she kicked me out the hospital and she gave me nothing but hell and lies and even said she didn’t want to know about her own granddaughter. This story is extremely long so to not bore you guys out let me get to the point, he told me I could go to his house for Father’s Day and bring our babygirl and he wants to feel baby in the belly move BUT I was never allowed in his house cause of his mother and father. am I wrong for not wanting to step a foot in a house full of people who enjoyed to make my life miserable for months or better yet told me that she wants nothing to do with my daughter, and Is trying to convince him that baby on the way isn’t his?? I told him we can meet up with us aid (he needs a aid due to complications from his accident) and go out for dinner but he doesn’t want that. He already has a 5 year old daughter that his family adores ( but they can’t stand my daughter ) he wants them both together but I told him I don’t feel comfortable being in a house full of people who literally prayed for him to not remember me or his daughter! No one has apologized or tried to make things better just worse. I tried to make arrangements for us but he thinks I just don’t want his family around my daughter and he’s damn right! Those people will never get to be around my daughter ever again after all this stress they’ve caused!! Someone people tell me I’m not over exaggerating 😥