My Bf is starting to make me feel some type of way. Yesterday was his birthday and I made a post on facebook giving him a B-Day shout out for some reason he hide the post from his wall and I notice he does it to almost everything I tag him in. We have yet to make our pregnancy public told some family but I feel like he hides me because I'm not white and he fears what his family will say. He told me he told his mom he has a baby on the way but didn't tell her I wasn't white what type of bullshit is that 😪
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@lili007, your baby deserves to grow up in a loving environment which clearly isn't his family, even if it means raising the baby on your own...
Girlllll. I'm proud of you for saying that and standing up for yourself ! I go through problems with my bfs family not even showing any interest in my daughter .. it's the worst feeling. But you do what's best for the baby and if they act that way keep the baby faaaaaarrrrrr from them !!!
I'm am islander and I'm a proud islander his family will not make me feel like I am a problem. My family is so mixed that I wasn't brought up to hate or dislike anyone for their race or color of these skin I will not tolerate that around my child it's just depressing having to be in this situation
@bria, @allyandbabies my Puerto Rican ass is not going deal with that bullshit after thanksgiving which is when we plan on making the announcement if I still get the same treatment and feeling I'm washing my hands with him and the family my child don't need that type of negativity in his or her life
@datnavajogirl, a little over a year his family is from another state he is the only one that lives here
@lili007 Well that's weird. If him or his family has a problem with it they can shove it.! Makes zero sense why it would even be an issue.
@92angel, we have but briefly the conversation always change I can tell it stresses him out
That's crazy and I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully she doesn't think anything different of your baby just bc he/she is not going to be fully white
What @laila92 said. F*+k that ! Save yourself the headache and enjoy your pregnancy. If this is something you can forgive later on than go for it. But don't put up with bs
@reyesmomma, he is white but as long as we been dating and his personality and the friends he keep around I would have never guessed it would have been an issue
@allyandbabies, I'm guessing she is and it's sad
my personal opinion if I was in that situation I would tell his parents personally and leave his ass I wouldn't like anyone hiding me at all idc if im black white brown blue yellow or green...
Why would you need to be white.? Is he white.? not like that would matter. Mixed babies r the best.! I'm having a mixed baby. and I'm white if my family had a problem too damn bad.! I'll never be with a white man.
Goodluck and I hope all works out