Feeling incredibly sad... had my 39 week check-up today (I am 39 weeks and 5 days) and my doctor basically said the doctor who checked me last week didn't give me accurate details (my original doctor was out for delivery during my appointment last week so I had to see a different male doctor).. last week the male doctor claimed I was 2.5 cm dilated and 90% effaced, he even told me that I would most likely go into labor any day (I know they can't determine that, but I couldn't help but get my hopes up)... well today my usual doctor said that I'm 3 cm dilated and only 70% effaced... I'm due on Thursday and my doctor wants to check me again on Monday if I don't go into labor by then.. She also said we can talk induction on Monday if I have made some progression... I just can't help but feel helpless and like my baby boy doesn't want to come out!! 😔 My hubby and I are so ready to meet him, not to mention how uncomfortable I am on a daily basis, but he just doesn't want to come out and it's making me sad!!
I walked around, worked out, did zumba, even went jogging at 6 cm and completely effaced for 3 days before I actually had my baby. It took relaxing to finally do it for me. I know that's tough to do so close to baby time but try to take your mind off of things
hopefully your baby boy will come!! come,on little guy your mom is dying to meet you!
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her ...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ladies who are 36 weeks and further... Does your doctor check your cervix each week? Mine said he's not checking mine until my due date which I think is crazy
Ok, so I went to the doctor today and it's getting closer to my due date and I'm
37 weeks prego . They haven't offered me another ultersound and my last one was in March ..... I had my doctor check my cervix because he said ," he wasn't planning on checking it but if I wanted him to he would ." So I said yes I do for piece of mind . Then I asked him if he would check what position the baby is in and he checked but without using ultrasound and said the baby was head down and lying on his side fa...
@jessesgirl919, i was only 1 1/2 cm dilated when my water broke... so don't count yourself out