Okay so I've had this stuck in my head since I've had my son and had no one to talk about it. Right after I had him when they went to do the skin to skin and instead of wrapping my arms around him my arms went up. Is that Normal with your first kid , I feel terrible about it.
don't feel terrible. don't focus on the past. you'll have plenty of bonding times to come and lots of love to give him. just move forward...you have a beautiful healthy baby that you adore. it took me the longest to hold my son after he was born due to what i was going through and in bad situations at the time. to this day he's my life...I love him so much and I'm honored to have given birth to such a wonderful ball of energy lol
I didn't just wrap my arms around him they went away from him. I didn't cuddle him right away I felt like I couldn't touch him.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
With my first I told them to hand him to his father because I needed to take a nap. It happens